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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 10:20 AM
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A relatively applicable quote:

"The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who can't read them." ~Mark Twain
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 10:27 AM
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Don't want to seem like a bubble burster, BUT it's most likely an abnormal (not in a bad way, just deviates from the norm) developmental spurt. Kids develop intellectually at different times and stages just as some kids learn to speak at 7-8months and others may take a few years. Eventually most level out at the intellectual capacity and what mainly differentiates people is the amount of work and effort they put into things they do.

Many examples of this happening to extreme cases (12yr old doctor in india, 15yr old sugeon, etc) , just don't feel like finding discrete examples.
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by C U AT 9K,Oct 12 2007, 11:28 AM
Sometimes if the mind works too fast, you simply are not able to focus on anything. Sure, you can figure something out in 2 seconds instead of 2 minutes, but that doesn't mean you'll have the patience later on. That's what happened to me. I never studied a day in my life until I got to college (and I was in the honors biology program in high school), and I'm feeling the pain now; I simply have no patience/ability to focus on tasks, yet I've always been better at English (third language after French and Arabic), math, science, memorization, problem solving, logic, technology, directions, computers, etc. than 98% of the people I know. My problem is I'm too lazy, I just don't want to do it anymore. Sure, I can knock out a 10 page English paper on the due date, but I can't count how many times my attitude has come back to bite me in the ass.

If there's anything you can do to help your child keep her mind flowing and allow her to make use of her skills, it's letting her learn how to organize her thoughts.
I had to face a similar issue when I went to college. I didn't have to work for my grades until then and it took me a solid two semesters of sub-par grades to realize that it'd take more than two hours of study the night before the final exam to learn the entire course. I mean, when you cover two years of high school physics in thirteen weeks, you know that you've got to learn quickly and stay on top of things. The amount of information I had to absorb in high school was so trivial on a daily basis compared to college.

I'm better now but it definitely took me a while to get into that groove. I'd just study for a bit, throw the book away, and go do whatever I wanted....and write a C or D on the test (even failed a few). I never failed a class but I came close a few times.

Sounds like we're very much the same (for better or worse). If we're not challenged regularly, we don't really excel that much. Luckily, my boss challenges me a fair bit, especially when we have a super-tight schedule.
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 12:47 PM
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[QUOTE=vtec9,Oct 11 2007, 05:14 PM] I was in a gifted and talented program as a child.. but look at me now.
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Ubetit,Oct 11 2007, 07:11 PM
There is also a difference between gifted or intelligent and a prodigy or genius. The smartest kid in the class, the one with all A's still isn't skipping grades and graduating Harvard at 18 or writing symphonies.
Roger that. Early teens or younger taking physics class in college or children writing full lengths pieces of music are genuises.

You have a very sharp, inteligent girl. Still a gift by every means.
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 02:16 PM
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Again, I used the word "prodigy" jokingly. She can be a prodigy, genius, or even normal, for all I care, as long as she'll become a good, compassionate person like her daddy.

I think she's very bright, regardless of being a genius or not; reading and writing at 3 when most kids start at 5 or 6, including my older child. Sometimes the phrases that came out of her mouth, I thought she was an actual philosopher.

Anyway, she's "decided" she wants to be a doctor, singer and model at the same time. I said she couldn't be all three, and she replied: "Says who? I can be all three if I want to."

One thing is for sure, she has "non-Asian" eyes. They are round and light brown with eyelashes nearly an inch long. She'll grow up to be as pretty as her daddy.

So yeah, prodigy, genius, who cares...I'll see how she'll turn out once she's a bit older. But she does seem brighter than other kids, including my older daughter when she was that age.
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by mingster,Oct 11 2007, 08:08 PM
my oldest (just turned 3 a couple of months back) was able to change CDs in the tabletop CD player we had at 13 months and play his songs; by 18 months he can turn on the TV and change channels, and before 2 he could change DVDs to his Thomas the train movies and play/forward/reverse chapters. before he turned 3 he was on the internet at www.thomasandfriends.com and now at 3 he can turn my laptop on, log in (no password for his limited account), open FireFox and (it automatically loads thomas' website) has navigated the entire thomas website, played all the games, and mastered all the puzzles.

the kid speaks 2 languages (not fluent yet) and will speak a third once i start speaking to him in that 3rd language. i hope by the time he graduates high school he'll speak 4 or 5 languages fluently.

he's very normal
You may want to limit your son to using the computer a bit less. My daughter likes and knows how to use our desktop too, but we forbid her. She'll have plenty of time to do that because she'll be a in a "computer world" when she's grown. The reasons for our limitation: 1) we don't fully trust the internet for young children; 2) using the computer much can put stress on the eyes and may diminish vision (that's a known and proven fact).

Kids will have plenty of time to get acquainted with computers once in higher schools.
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by kumainu,Oct 12 2007, 02:16 PM
Anyway, she's "decided" she wants to be a doctor, singer and model at the same time. I said she couldn't be all three, and she replied: "Says who? I can be all three if I want to."
I've done all 3 so it ain't impossible baby. The sky's the limit!
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by s2000raj,Oct 12 2007, 04:49 PM
I've done all 3 so it ain't impossible baby. The sky's the limit!
I'd heard of plus-size models but I didn't know they accepted ugly ones.

Perhaps we should ask your Mom?
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Old Oct 12, 2007 | 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted by JonBoy,Oct 12 2007, 06:01 PM
I'd heard of plus-size models but I didn't know they accepted ugly ones.

Perhaps we should ask your Mom?


I think he was referring to his drag-queen days, which he called "modeling".
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