I'll try my best to summarize everything, anyone who wants more details. I will definitely post if asked:

So the story goes:

I meet girl on another car forum (fellow car lover). We get along great. We have something going on so I decide to visit her (long distance). Things continue to go well, we really have something going on. So I make plans to visit and spend a week with her during new yrs (took off from work, got her a nice xmas gift and all). Mind you by this, I am quite serious. This girl is perfect to me, my dream girl. I was in . Well the day before i am supposed to drive, I call her. She doesn't answer. I called a few times, never answers. Fast forward a week, no reply or call back. My lil vacation is over so I am like wtf and very pissed. I find out later through the forum that she's with some other dude. She finally talks to me and says she just freaked and couldn't talk to me. She spent new yrs with this dude and he is now her bf. basically, i got played, really bad. So now here i am stuck and with the tiffany's necklace i bought her.

Well right now, she and i talk as friends. Yes, I know I am a dumbass. heres my dilemma. There is the annual car meet we have, this yr will be yr 5 and people come from all over the US. Its a specific car group, a car i used to own. Well, I signed up and paid for it. So has she and her bf. I spoke to the event organizer and told him my story. He will allow me to drop out and refund my money. He has said that he doesn't want to do that as I helped put this together and got more people to sign up. Now, this event is in central US. I am looking at a 2 day drive, 3 days there (2 of which are track days), and 2 day drive back. She will be there all weekend as well as part of my drive there and back (we're going as a big group). I want to enjoy my weekend but I know I will be miserable if I see her and her bf. The whole trip will cost me about 1000 or more in total. Money is not an issue but I want to enjoy it. I talked to some buddies about not attending. They threatened to come to my house, club me and throw me in their trunk and take me along. Theres alot of people that want me their. Also, if i go, it will be the last time I see this girl. I do not forsee ever seeing her again. I am not sure if i should go or not. Just confused as to what to do...

Sorry for making this long

 

Sorry to hear about this bro. Just go ahead and go man and don't think much about her at all. Just go and have fun driving and meeting new people. I know this might be the last thing on your mind but who knows you might meet someone new. Good luck and be safe.

-Alan

 

Hire a stunning escort for the trip and take her with you. Just kidding!

What the hell, you might as well go. Worst case scenario is that you have a good time with your friends. You might even meet someone else.

 

Jo0 Dumb a$$ just go

Damn bro, she kinda pnowed ya

Just kidding do0t just return the gift and get something for the S

 

just go and bring a hunny along with you to make her jealous.

 

Damn, you really did get owned. This story sounds like a loser high school love triangle. Why the hell are you buying this chick jewelry already. Never wear your heart on your sleeve, man. Anyways, you wanted to go to this event so GO. She played you bad so ACTUALLY, that bitch shouldn't go because she is the one that caused the BS, thus making the situation uncomfortable. You shouldn't be her friend, because she treated you like a little bitch and made you look like a pussy. If it were me, I would bring another girl along for the fun, I'm sure any chick would jump at the chance to go. Quit sulking like a loser and go.....the slut that owned you doesn't deserve your time, so don't talk to her or acknowledge her. Just because you lust for a girl and want to her doesn't mean you are in love, give the jewelry to your mom and tell her you love her.

 

Yeah I forgot about that man, you should bring another girl with you.

 

Have you actually ever met her in person? How do you fall in love with someone who is intangible?

You refer to her as it will be the "last time" you will ever see her -- but from what I am reading in your post, it will actually be the "first time" you see her???

How old are you? 12?

 

I dunno....one time i met this smokin hot chick on a car forum. Unfortunately, I never met her in person.

 

[QUOTE=naomi-sarah,Mar 10 2005, 03:07 PM] Have you actually ever met her in person?