Need Advice on whether i should attend an event
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Originally Posted by shareall,Mar 11 2005, 04:16 PM
you can't gain unless you risk.
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From: limerick
Hands down you go. This isn't a big deal, it just feels like one. You have to go face the situation. Act normal this girl is just one stop that wasn't worth it. You never know you might just meet the next one there 
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Originally Posted by Nishant,Mar 10 2005, 10:46 AM
I'll try my best to summarize everything, anyone who wants more details. I will definitely post if asked:
So the story goes:
I meet girl on another car forum (fellow car lover). We get along great. We have something going on so I decide to visit her (long distance). Things continue to go well, we really have something going on. So I make plans to visit and spend a week with her during new yrs (took off from work, got her a nice xmas gift and all). Mind you by this, I am quite serious. This girl is perfect to me, my dream girl. I was in
. Well the day before i am supposed to drive, I call her. She doesn't answer. I called a few times, never answers. Fast forward a week, no reply or call back. My lil vacation is over so I am like wtf and very pissed. I find out later through the forum that she's with some other dude. She finally talks to me and says she just freaked and couldn't talk to me. She spent new yrs with this dude and he is now her bf. basically, i got played, really bad. So now here i am stuck 
and with the tiffany's necklace i bought her.
Well right now, she and i talk as friends. Yes, I know I am a dumbass. heres my dilemma. There is the annual car meet we have, this yr will be yr 5 and people come from all over the US. Its a specific car group, a car i used to own. Well, I signed up and paid for it. So has she and her bf. I spoke to the event organizer and told him my story. He will allow me to drop out and refund my money. He has said that he doesn't want to do that as I helped put this together and got more people to sign up. Now, this event is in central US. I am looking at a 2 day drive, 3 days there (2 of which are track days), and 2 day drive back. She will be there all weekend as well as part of my drive there and back (we're going as a big group). I want to enjoy my weekend but I know I will be miserable if I see her and her bf. The whole trip will cost me about 1000 or more in total. Money is not an issue but I want to enjoy it. I talked to some buddies about not attending. They threatened to come to my house, club me and throw me in their trunk and take me along. Theres alot of people that want me their. Also, if i go, it will be the last time I see this girl. I do not forsee ever seeing her again. I am not sure if i should go or not. Just confused as to what to do...
Sorry for making this long
So the story goes:
I meet girl on another car forum (fellow car lover). We get along great. We have something going on so I decide to visit her (long distance). Things continue to go well, we really have something going on. So I make plans to visit and spend a week with her during new yrs (took off from work, got her a nice xmas gift and all). Mind you by this, I am quite serious. This girl is perfect to me, my dream girl. I was in
. Well the day before i am supposed to drive, I call her. She doesn't answer. I called a few times, never answers. Fast forward a week, no reply or call back. My lil vacation is over so I am like wtf and very pissed. I find out later through the forum that she's with some other dude. She finally talks to me and says she just freaked and couldn't talk to me. She spent new yrs with this dude and he is now her bf. basically, i got played, really bad. So now here i am stuck and with the tiffany's necklace i bought her. Well right now, she and i talk as friends. Yes, I know I am a dumbass. heres my dilemma. There is the annual car meet we have, this yr will be yr 5 and people come from all over the US. Its a specific car group, a car i used to own. Well, I signed up and paid for it. So has she and her bf. I spoke to the event organizer and told him my story. He will allow me to drop out and refund my money. He has said that he doesn't want to do that as I helped put this together and got more people to sign up. Now, this event is in central US. I am looking at a 2 day drive, 3 days there (2 of which are track days), and 2 day drive back. She will be there all weekend as well as part of my drive there and back (we're going as a big group). I want to enjoy my weekend but I know I will be miserable if I see her and her bf. The whole trip will cost me about 1000 or more in total. Money is not an issue but I want to enjoy it. I talked to some buddies about not attending. They threatened to come to my house, club me and throw me in their trunk and take me along. Theres alot of people that want me their. Also, if i go, it will be the last time I see this girl. I do not forsee ever seeing her again. I am not sure if i should go or not. Just confused as to what to do...
Sorry for making this long
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Damn Nishant, I didnt hear about this until now. 
Your supposed to keep your pimp hand strong. What happened?
Go there and smack this dude around and take your girl back. Besides, if that dosent work, you can probably hit it one last time.
AIM me about the necklace, you might have an interested party.
Your supposed to keep your pimp hand strong. What happened?
Go there and smack this dude around and take your girl back. Besides, if that dosent work, you can probably hit it one last time.
AIM me about the necklace, you might have an interested party.
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Nishant, you are far too weak. Grow some balls and a spine. Women are a dime a dozen and this one WAS a lemon. Be thankful you didn't invest more money and emotion into this deadend. Don't be a fool. You're a good guy so hold out for quality chick.
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Originally Posted by ol' dood,Mar 14 2005, 04:58 AM
Nishant, you are far too weak. Grow some balls and a spine. Women are a dime a dozen and this one WAS a lemon. Be thankful you didn't invest more money and emotion into this deadend. Don't be a fool. You're a good guy so hold out for quality chick.
Society has pussified you into thinking you need to spend exuberant amounts of money to win women over and "buy" their affection. Just go with the flow and take the pressure off yourself. There are plenty of GOOD women out there to meet, just talk to women wherever you go (everyday places) and be straightforward, give them a compliment or something. The more women you meet, means you can be more picky and force them to win you over, instead of vice versa.
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From: never never land
Nishant is my girl advice master...now let the master get a lesson from the youngin...
She knows you like her, and she also knows what she feels and did to you. Girls are trouble, so you have to watch out for her bf...you never know what she told him...
since money isn't an option, go to the event and enjoy yourself. don't talk to her unless she talks to you. ignore her all you can. if she says "Hi Nishant", just reply and say "Not much how are you?", and end it like that. now don't be a dick about it, girls will sense that and it will mess your game up. you have to play it like nothing happened. Show her that you don't care about her anymore, and that you forgot the past. Girls like to know they have you buy the , don't show any emotions and your fine man.
She knows you like her, and she also knows what she feels and did to you. Girls are trouble, so you have to watch out for her bf...you never know what she told him...
since money isn't an option, go to the event and enjoy yourself. don't talk to her unless she talks to you. ignore her all you can. if she says "Hi Nishant", just reply and say "Not much how are you?", and end it like that. now don't be a dick about it, girls will sense that and it will mess your game up. you have to play it like nothing happened. Show her that you don't care about her anymore, and that you forgot the past. Girls like to know they have you buy the
, don't show any emotions and your fine man.
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