You were in the friend zone way before then. Work and play don't mix, it wasn't a good idea to start with. Just consider yourself lucky.

 

Alternatively, PIIHB

 

Don't make your honey where you make your money. End of conversation. I've been in numerous work related relationships whether it's dating or just sex, and neither ever work out in your best interest. When it goes south, not if, because it will, it always ends up being negative on you. She spreads word around how horrible a person you are, and then nobody likes you at work anymore. It's just the name of the game.

Don't do it!!

 

^ Always trust a guy w/ "pwned" in his name.

 

I noticed it LOL.

Red flag for the girl, not the OP, and probably the reason why she doesn't want to date you.

Move it along.

 

 

Yes, because that obviously says who I am.

 

pics? =)

First, i would show a minimal effort in her problems. like if she says "blah blah its sucks blah blah"

Say, Yea damn that sucks and move the conversation to something else. who gives a shit about her problems. sounds like you know to much already.

Looks like friends zone already. Who goes in for said hug first? If its you stop. I wouldnt ask her any kind of relationship question for your self or anything past. If you continue going out with her, dont worry about if its going to turn into anything. And for gods sakes make her pay for something lol. Judging by what you say it doesnt seem like a date anyways.

sit back and see where it goes. no reason to rush.

 

She go out of town solo a lot?

Does she live at home still?

Does she have friends?

Does she torture animals?

Is there a streak of homeless people being murdered in your area?

Yeah........I would take a pass on this one....