great post! i agree with almost all of it. single guys who don't like to be tied down should Definitely pay attn. to this post. guys in serious relationships or those looking for one... not as much

+1 for whoever said 'dont say sorry'

AND... for the young guys 23 and under, times have changed, you don't have to hold doors and pay for meals when you first meet a girl; it can just make you look weak, just be interesting and have a good time and those 'formal' things arent necessary.

 

dont fall for a girl that you hit in one night

 

"bringing them back in line"? Being insulted and disrespected doesn't really do anything for me. What's the point?

 

i must admit, for some it does; none i would like to 'date'

most dont want to 'date' anyway

 

So if I try this sh*t do you have some sort of guarantee???

 

I would recommend as always www.askmen.com and look for articles by doc love, the good ones are mostly his older ones. Its everything we already know but felt guilty to admit. I can tell you hitting on and picking up women is a lot easier than we make it out to be.

I'm lucky I was a shy guy who got married early and then got a divorce. Rejection means nothing to me, hell my ex-wife rejected me WTF cares rather or not this stranger does. Well it took me a while to get that attitude but since then I have never been rejected for a first date ever, I'm 100% for getting their number, of course I pre-qualify them by determining if they are interested before hand. Those simple signals and comments. I once dated 13 women in 141 days, my luck stuck at the 13th one. The thing to put in your head is that its not personal. Just because your not someones type doesn't mean your a loser, it has no bearing on rather or not your attractive to other women. However I would be remiss not to point out that no one likes there ego deflated so learn to tellif shes interested before you stick you neck out on the guilitine. You can only do that by getting HER to talk and interact with you. There's a whole lot i can say about this subject but that website will give you plenty of good free advice.

 

I can guarantee that 1 out of 10 times you'll be successful... you happy with that?

 

I will also keep posting stuff in this thred. I'll try to update every day or such.

Guys::::
Take chances, be brave, be cocky, reel them in with your jokes, BE IN CONTROL. Especially with the attractive ones, MAKE THEM FEEL THAT THEY'RE NOTHING SPECIAL AROUND YOU. Remember, these girls get hit on everywhere ALL THE TIME. Give them something different, and you'll get great results. It takes a little time and practice, but once you understand how everything works, it's just like driving a stick shift car---- instinct. It becomes part of who you are.

 

Hahahah, Yellow I have to be honest, when I first read the title I thought this was gonna be a CRAPPY thread. Now that Ive actually read it, you have some good points. I have to say this is a great thread.

BTW the never saying sorry thing, and being decisive is a definate !!!

 

Ok Hitch, go get your haircut.