You guys are my buddies, so I'm going to share something with you, and it is so off topic from cars so thats why I posted here.

Well life was going ok. I was looking through my filing cabinet looking for some documents, and I pull out the cellphone bill, which I didn

 

log on, print out his emails, and confront her. do not yell, and do not allow her to try to say you should be ashamed for reading her "personal" emails. she should be ashamed for even entertaining any conversations with this "friend" after he started professing his love for her... and then inviting him over while you're gone is beyond the pale.

she is clearly lying. I'm very sorry.

(note: this is my humble "first instinct" opinion based on what you've written. but from what you've written, it's pretty f*ckin clear cut. once agian, I'm sorry.)

 

Thanks for the support and advice. I've printed a few out now. I feel really sick to my stomach at the moment. I don't know what I will return to when I get back from the UK, but I need to try keep a level head I guess.

I tried to call this guy last night and someone picked up the phone and said it was the wrong number when I asked to speak to a Derek. He said I had called a dorm room where alot of people come in and out, but he doesnt know a Derek.

Well, gotta hit the road in a few. Thanks for advice again.



John

 

Wow what a scumbag I feel like now. I can't beleive you found my pic. Did you finally figure it out from reading my post? Damn, I never thought YOU would be reading this board. What are the chances! I should have listened to all the guys trying to talk some sense into me. Damn all you guys telling me to hit it....

 

Damn man, I don't know what to say except I'm sorry to hear about your marital problems....I completely agree with tritium_pie and his suggestion of how to go about this.....geez, I hope it all works out for you.....

 

I hope you're kidding.....

 

yea man im kidding...i had a post about sleeping with married woman and thought i would be a little wise-ass

 

Dude how insensitive from your part to joke on a situation like this. I just hope something like this never happens to you.

Cheers,

 

Yea that was pretty insensitive and uncalled for...

Now back on topic... I agree with Tritium too... confront her but don't lose your cool about it no matter how hard it gets.. blowing up will only make things worse..

 

Should he talk to a lawyer first before talking to his wife?