Sometimes laywers are helpful, sometimes people are better off if they're not involved. Either way, it's very sad--especially since we're about to get into the holidays.

 

im so so sorry about ur story my gf cheated on me several times i know how that bestraying feelins are in you.......... but think wise and act smart........

get a good lawyer and solve the problems

 

sorry to hear, yogi. i hope everything is well in the end. protect yourself also.

 

good luck

 

Sorry to hear about your problems. What online game did they happen to be playing with each other?

 

i would talk to a lawyer to protect your assets if it needs to go that far, but i would just confront her about the cell phone bills, and not worry about the emails, cause that can be grounds for invasion of privacy?

 

i don't know anything about the law, but dude, one would think once you're married there shouldn't be any secrets?

 

lemme guess,,,,,the sims????

 

Yogi - sorry to hear about your situation. There's a lot of good advice here, all I could say is feel it out w/a plan in mind.

ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN - that's my life motto.

I hate to see yet another marriage fail, I'd also hate to see another guy get screwed out of his assets.

Personally I don't think leaving her would have much to do w/ man-pride. Trust is the biggest issue here and you'll never be able to trust her again.

And let me tell you how that story goes ... unless you can COMPLETELY allow yourself to trust her again, the story goes like this..... You and her decide that getting back together for "whatever reason" is the best thing, you make up, you say that it'll never happen again. But no matter what you say, you don't trust her anymore, you begin questioning yourself and her when she's not in sight or when she's doing something remotely suspicious. Sooner or later you become an insecure mess, questioning her, bringing up the past, trying to watch her ever move. Then, guess what, she get's tired of it and leaves you, and you turn out to be the bad guy.

Geez dude, I wish you the best of luck, but I've been thru something similar, so have some of my buddies (non of us married/divorced so not to your magnitude) so I know the road will be a difficult one.

Take care

 

Hi, I hope things work out for you -- this will be a very trying time in your life, but like the old cliche goes, what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. And there are always things to be taken from experiences in life that try to bring you down.