Relationship advice..
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From: MAHT-O-MEDI
Originally Posted by S2kAllStarDrifters!,Jul 27 2005, 04:45 PM
I guess i havent really moved on, but if I still love her, how come I dont want to see,talk or be with her..
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Love and hate are supposedly opposite sides of the same coin....
If you have to ask if you're over her.... you probably aren't. But just because you don't want to hang out with her doesn't mean you aren't over her. It is when you really don't care either way and your emotions don't hinge on something to do with your ex that you are truly 'moved on'.
Just like it takes time to fall *in* love with someone.... it takes awhile to fall *out* of love with someone... even if they have done something to hurt you. Just know what you are going through is totally normal..... focus on yourself and you will all of a sudden, in time, realize you are *so* over her.
If you have to ask if you're over her.... you probably aren't. But just because you don't want to hang out with her doesn't mean you aren't over her. It is when you really don't care either way and your emotions don't hinge on something to do with your ex that you are truly 'moved on'.
Just like it takes time to fall *in* love with someone.... it takes awhile to fall *out* of love with someone... even if they have done something to hurt you. Just know what you are going through is totally normal..... focus on yourself and you will all of a sudden, in time, realize you are *so* over her.
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Are you at that stage where you want her to see you with another hot babe? Want to rub it in a little? Hope you aren't calling her and saying nothing before you hang up. Can you say "Caller ID"? Don't be a schmuck. You can't force someone to be with you. Trying to force the issue merely results in her saying and thinking that you are a creep.
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My advice is not to ask personal relationship advice on a public Internet car forum.
It's kinda like asking, "I've felt worthless for a while now. Should I kill myself?" There will always be someone say "yes," just to see what you do.
It's kinda like asking, "I've felt worthless for a while now. Should I kill myself?" There will always be someone say "yes," just to see what you do.
