yes...

okay here is my list, but I may be different than most girls

1. Intelligence (more than me at least)
2. Height ( ya it's weird but I just have a thing for tall men)
3. Security/Gentlemen ( I once dated a guy that had absolutely no problem with me going to an atm by myself at 3 in the morning, I dont like to teach someone how to be a man, I would like them to know.)
4. HUMOR (they gotta make me laugh, im fun/funny and don't like lamers)
5.Cant be cheap ( sorry but it's a TOTAL turn off to be with a cheap guy, not that there's anything wrong with it, its just not how I am and I know later on this will start fights. I am not saying that I want to be wined and dined, but if I give you 20 on a 23 dollar bill and you don't give me change, your cheap!) this has happened as well.
6. Well rounded. in the end this is what counts.


gtfo - get the fuuck out

Im 21 and Ive dated guys younger and older than me, in my experience, the younger ones had too much of a pride issue-which won't fly. Including me, most of my girlfriends like to date a guy at least 2 years older, but I personally don't think I can go more than 8 years older.

 

[QUOTE=rubyrashel,Jan 4 2007, 04:42 PM] yes...

okay here is my list, but I may be different than most girls

1. Intelligence (more than me at least)
2. Height ( ya it's weird but I just have a thing for tall men)
3. Security/Gentlemen ( I once dated a guy that had absolutely no problem with me going to an atm by myself at 3 in the morning, I dont like to teach someone how to be a man, I would like them to know.)
4. HUMOR (they gotta make me laugh, im fun/funny and don't like lamers)
5.Cant be cheap ( sorry but it's a TOTAL turn off to be with a cheap guy, not that there's anything wrong with it, its just not how I am and I know later on this will start fights. I am not saying that I want to be wined and dined, but if I give you 20 on a 23 dollar bill and you don't give me change, your cheap!) this has happened as well.
6.

 

sorry dude.

have to say it's nice when s2ki is supportive

 

Yeah I know, this is gold. Although I am a little cheap, looks like I'll have to change that.

 

Yeah, this is why I posted here.

 

No you won't. . . trust me. . . just be choosier about where you cut corners.

 

Well what I was talking about is stuff that you can sort of figure out in the first 2-3 dates, sex would come later, So if they did pass all the requirements (or most) then of course, sex would have to be good. Me personally, thats a tall glass to fill, literally, its a 1 out of 10 chance. Im used to being disappointed so I won't break it off solely on that unless their just horrible. I can usually work with them.

 

So on these 3 dates would you carry a small notepad to take notes and check off your requirements throughout the evening? And what about the sex, does the lucky guy get a gold star for each successful or original move? Or is it a sliding scale (no pun intended), where he gets an instant 5 stars for good oral?

 

no! You just sort of know. But when asked what you look for in a man, you have to organize your thoughts and write them down like I did. As far as sex, you suck, or you don't suck. Like I said, I don't expect much in that department, because I think Im the one that may be faulty.

 

Women decide (subconciously) in the first 30 seconds whether or not they're having sex with you.

After that, it's just about you having to go through "the credit application."