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From: CFL
Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 5 2007, 12:59 PM
no! You just sort of know. But when asked what you look for in a man, you have to organize your thoughts and write them down like I did. As far as sex, you suck, or you don't suck. Like I said, I don't expect much in that department, because I think Im the one that may be faulty.
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jan 5 2007, 10:19 AM
lol, this is turning into a funny conversation...do you think its common for women to be more demanding when it comes to what they want from a man? What I mean is, most women have a grocery list of expectations and its seems single men are jumping through hoops.
I don't jump through hoops. If I see a hoop, I'll call it like I see it and leave.
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well, most of the stuff I listed is what I like in friends as well. For instance, my best friend is intelligent (dental student), protective (has my back), funny, isn't cheap (sometimes she pays sometimes I pay for lunches etc. or we just split it down the middle) and what I would consider well rounded. She is 5'2 but the height thing only applies to men im interested in. They are mostly qualities I like to find in people in general. She never sweats the small stuff.
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I honestly don't think Im asking men to jump through hoops. I mean if I can wish and make a list, there is my list. Most men don't meet all of it but then again I dont require all of it. Its sounding like a checklist or application, but it's not, how else can I explain it in writing in an organized manner.
what do men look for in a woman?
what do men look for in a woman?
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 5 2007, 01:29 PM
what do men look for in a woman?
2.) Domestic skills.. cooking, cleaning, etc
3.) Not career oriented or overly independent but intelligent
4.) Preferable foreign, cultured, non-americanized
5.) Natural beauty (doesnt have to be a 10, but can't be a hag)
6.) Not alot of guy friends
7.) Relatively submissive without being an absolute pushover.
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jan 5 2007, 01:38 PM
1.) Willingness to please her man, go the extra mile, (espescially sexually)
2.) Domestic skills.. cooking, cleaning, etc
3.) Not career oriented or overly independent but intelligent
4.) Preferable foreign, cultured, non-americanized
5.) Natural beauty (doesnt have to be a 10, but can't be a hag)
6.) Not alot of guy friends
7.) Relatively submissive without being an absolute pushover.
2.) Domestic skills.. cooking, cleaning, etc
3.) Not career oriented or overly independent but intelligent
4.) Preferable foreign, cultured, non-americanized
5.) Natural beauty (doesnt have to be a 10, but can't be a hag)
6.) Not alot of guy friends
7.) Relatively submissive without being an absolute pushover.
not a lot of guy friends-- does this mean that you wouldnt have a lot of girl friends?
submissive as in they have a problem they'll just be casual about it and let it slide, or you don't want a woman that isn't afraid to stand up for themselves. Youll probably answer no to that last question, but please clarify number 7
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From: Erock's my boat!
Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Jan 5 2007, 01:29 PM
what do men look for in a woman?
love
integrity
honesty
trust
beauty
companionship
selflessness
understanding
values
family
enjoyment