You could be right, but I guess to each his own. That sounds like a study done with couples that have already slept with each other. I am talking about when you FIRST meet a girl (First date etc). In my opinion, she needs to be attracted to you and needs to feel comfortable. Deep down, she might want to F*ck right away, but her level of comfortability might not be there. After a few drinks and some conversation are shared, then the mood is lightened and you both will fall into that comfort zone.

 

Just a question... when the author hands that CC over to open "Tabs" if the chick doesn't pay doesn't it go to the CC? Or wouldn't the Waiter/ess ask for another CC?

Just a thought

 

I'm sorry to say, but moves like this work.

If you meet a good looking chick in a night club, and she asks for a drink, try telling her "nahh,but if YOU want to pay ME a drink, I'm all for it".

It's funny, but it works because it oepns up the 'curiosity' in her making them want to know more about why their 'good looks' was not enough to sway you into their control. Women crave control of men, so don't give it. It's the same principle as going to the hottest chick in the bar (they know they're the hottest one) and tell them "nice shoes, shame it doesn't go with the hair".

You'd think they slap you, but instead they'll get mildly interested in you, because for once there's a guy who won't go to their knees right before 'em.

Got some good lays that way.

 

That's pretty good advice right there.

 

[QUOTE=gotrice02,Jun 9 2005, 11:07 AM] You could be right, but I guess to each his own.

 

Wow. I'm not even going to try and navigate the minefield of this thread other than to place a and carefully back out again.

 

I never said that its necessary to get a woman drunk first, just that conversating while having a few drinks contributes to a more relaxed environment. Do what works for you, either way I don't give a shet. You could do a million studies, but how credible are they when you know nothing about the women you are sampling for the study. The point of my post was, that guys should sway away from the norm...dinner, movie, etc when courting women.

 

No women in her right mind would date a guy who wouldn't pay for at least the first date. I mean if it was dinner or drinks with a friend, sure why not but as a first date? Not only that what kind of cheap ass would ask a girl out and not pay for her.

 

IMO, it depends on who does the inviting. if she invites, she should pay. It doesn't happen to me much now, but women often made the first move when I was sexier.

 

You're probably right, but I think a first date should be a neutral area that leaves the guy an out if the woman ends up being a waste of time (it's not about the money). If you take a woman out to dinner for a first date and realize half way through that you never want to see her again, you're pretty much still stuck there listening to her run her mouth. Going to a bar or going on a "date" to a more public area allows you to improvise in case your date turns out to suck.