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Old Feb 4, 2010 | 04:54 PM
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My wife lied to me, I'm expecting a baby in April, she told me it was a boy, she went alone to the doctor appointment alone, I was a work. I sold my SC S2k cause I was really happy, I have two daughters already. I'm so mad at the moment, she should've told me, sorry guys, I'm asian and my in-laws think negitive of me cause I only get girls, no boys yet. I'm so tired of my life, I know you think I'm joking, but I'm not, this is how the traditional goes in my culture, even thou I live in USA . My mother told me today that my in-laws were thinking of letting someone else get me a boy, I'm so mad cause my mother agrees. I'm ready to leave this world.
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:05 PM
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Originally Posted by J0eys2k,Feb 4 2010, 07:54 PM
My wife lied to me, I'm expecting a baby in April, she told me it was a boy, she went alone to the doctor appointment alone, I was a work. I sold my SC S2k cause I was really happy, I have two daughters already. I'm so mad at the moment, she should've told me, sorry guys, I'm asian and my in-laws think negitive of me cause I only get girls, no boys yet. I'm so tired of my life, I know you think I'm joking, but I'm not, this is how the traditional goes in my culture, even thou I live in USA . My mother told me today that my in-laws were thinking of letting someone else get me a boy, I'm so mad cause my mother agrees. I'm ready to leave this world.
Please get help. You've got two wonderful daughters to think about, and another child on the way. Don't focus on your In-Laws, focus on your immediately family. I realize your invested in tradition, but you're going to need to find something more important if you're going to get though this. Find that something, and you'll move on, and become happier.
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:24 PM
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Killing yourself is never the solution. Everyone around you will think it is their fault. If that is what you want, then you are truly an asshole.

Don't do it.
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:25 PM
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Dude, if you're serious- hang in there. There's no amount of idiotic shaming from family or in-laws that can overcome the joy of being a great father of three beautiful children, no matter if they're boys or girls.

Plus, with three Asian girls, someone's going to need to instill the fear of God in all those gwai-lo boys that will be beating a path to your door in 15 years.
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:35 PM
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See a fertility specialist. They can increase the likelihood of having a male child. This is just a little bump in the road, not the end of it.
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:55 PM
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shall i issue a 5150 to the op?
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:56 PM
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if you can find him
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:58 PM
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true... and if i was a psych nurse. but back to topic op, go seek some psych help, no problem is worth taking your life
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 05:59 PM
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Dude you got it, I think having 3 daughters would be fun. If you work with your wife, it'll be a cinch. If your parents choose to be negative, F em.
Old Feb 4, 2010 | 06:31 PM
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nothing's worth taking your own life... don't mean to be all religious, but i believe life is the most beautiful gift given to us by God, don't do it. seek professional help, just talk it out bud.



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