[QUOTE=CKit,Feb 4 2010, 06:35 PM] See a fertility specialist.

 

I rarely post here but this thread got my attn. Having two little kids myself, and thinking you are serious about your post, has me very worried.

Please go and seek some help as mentioned above ... forget about the car you sold, forget about whether the kid you have on the way will be girl or a boy ... think of the beautiful wife/daughters/future kid you have now. They are the most important thing ...

J

 

i was under the impression that girl/boy was the luck of the draw, not the donor, with a 50/50 chance, statistics say the next is to be a boy, don't lose faith...

 

wow.. man its not worth it. Just pick your immediate family up and gtfo. Come live in Australia... you need a scene change or some pro help dude.

Asian families can be unbelievably controlling without even having to say much or physically do anything... its insane. Luckily my family live away from my relies and we keep our distance.

 

to the OP, I found this late. I hope you haven't done anything since you have me concerned. Either get to a local hospital and tell them whats going on or at least call 1.800.784.2433 there are people there that can talk to you and can help you with what's going on.

 

dude, what kind of asian are your in-laws?? I mean, my parents immigrated here and even THEY aren't that all out. Anyway, do your own thing, tell your in laws to cufk themselves and keep trying ;]. Like the others said, fertility specialist and get some testosterone pumping! lift weights or something..

 

suicide is not the answer...

its easy to die but harder to live. keep living, you have two daughters who need you.

 

+1 tell your inlaw to go #### themself. Your main concern is your kids and wife.

I am asian and I understand where your coming from. But my relative aint that extreme. My cousin was in your situation once, he had 2 baby girls. And then he had a 3rd one, then I heard his mom told him that his next kid needs to be a boy since he already had 2 girls. Then my cuzz was like, "if i have 3 daughters then thats gods will". Then his mom didnt bug him no more. but, his 3rd kid turn out to be a boy.


You have 2 wonder daughters, they NEED you !! . I dont have a kid yet, but when I do , I will go to hell and back to just make them have a happy childhood.

 

Can't imagine this is serious. Suicide by spider is not a standard form of killing yourself so I'm sure you could just let it bite you on the outside and it would be ruled accidental. Except that you posted on interwebz 'bout it.

And if CSI has taught me anything, the autopsy will show stomach contents include a (small-enough to swallow) venomous spider CSI wouldn't lie!

If you're serious consider something like this as an option, talk to someone as directed above. If not, quit messing with good folks here because you've obviously stuck a chord with suicide comments. Good luck.

 

As someone who has gone through this and threatened suicide before seriously and been admitted, there is much more in life to live than your car and because your wife lied to you. You can't think of yourself since you already have two children who desperately need their father. Not to mention, you now have a third on the way.

When I threatened to kill myself, with knife in hand, I was only thinking of myself and not my family who would be devastated with such a selfish move. You have to understand that alot of people would be affected with a decision such as this. It's not worth it. Ever since then, life has been born anew for me and I'm very certain that once you come out of this situation, it will do the same for you and you will become a new person.

Keep your chin up. God has much more in store for your life than you can imagine right now. I will be praying for you and your family. If you need to talk to someone who has been there before, feel free to call my on my cell. My number is 828-244-2271 and my name is Gavin.

Also, does anyone know this person? If someone lives close and knows him, contact the police or someone. This needs to be taken very seriously and reported so he can get some help.

Is it possible for the mods to find out who this is so this can be reported?