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Would you date a stripper?
If a guy wanted to date a stripper (let's say... oh, me), what would be the best path to take from "he's-just-another-paying-customer" to "I-want-to-do-him"?
Even when they genuinely seem to like you, they might just be after more money. However, when they start basically giving you free... uh, service... and hanging out with you at the bar most of the night, it's hard to tell. They are fundamentally actresses paid to seem interested in guys with money, after all. This one girl is an absolute doll, and she honest-to-god does seem to like me personally. But maybe she's just trying to make sure I'm a regular. Maybe we'd wake up the morning after and she's ask me for $100.
I know several guys who have dated strippers, but they won't go into details about how they met. I'd imagine it's either embarrassing or involves some kind of super-secret technology.
They also say strippers aren't so great as partners, which I suppose I can understand.
Whatcha think?
- Warren
If a guy wanted to date a stripper (let's say... oh, me), what would be the best path to take from "he's-just-another-paying-customer" to "I-want-to-do-him"?
Even when they genuinely seem to like you, they might just be after more money. However, when they start basically giving you free... uh, service... and hanging out with you at the bar most of the night, it's hard to tell. They are fundamentally actresses paid to seem interested in guys with money, after all. This one girl is an absolute doll, and she honest-to-god does seem to like me personally. But maybe she's just trying to make sure I'm a regular. Maybe we'd wake up the morning after and she's ask me for $100.
I know several guys who have dated strippers, but they won't go into details about how they met. I'd imagine it's either embarrassing or involves some kind of super-secret technology.
They also say strippers aren't so great as partners, which I suppose I can understand.
Whatcha think?
- Warren
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It's very odd you mention this ...
One day I was washing/waxing my S2000. I live in a condomium right outside of San Francisco (notorious for clubs featuring naked women prancing around ... a.k.a. strippers). This girl came up to me and asked me if she could borrow my hose to wash her car. Of course I said yes. She looked like she was 18 or 19 and was looking good. Later she asks me for my number and says, "I have a friend who would think you're perfect."
To make a long story short ... she was a stripper! BOTH of them! So I ended up getting "friendly" (well you know what I mean) for awhile with one of them, and now I've moved onto her friend/roommate because the 1st girl was telling me how much she liked me, bla bla (a little too serious for me at this point in my life) ... so I aborted mission on that one.
In my case, I didn't exactly have to go look for a stripper, she found me. I'll tell you this though, if you find a good stripper you'll be a very lucky man.
My best advice would to try to find where all the strippers live at and try to meet one outside of her profession. i.e. not at the club.
One day I was washing/waxing my S2000. I live in a condomium right outside of San Francisco (notorious for clubs featuring naked women prancing around ... a.k.a. strippers). This girl came up to me and asked me if she could borrow my hose to wash her car. Of course I said yes. She looked like she was 18 or 19 and was looking good. Later she asks me for my number and says, "I have a friend who would think you're perfect."
To make a long story short ... she was a stripper! BOTH of them! So I ended up getting "friendly" (well you know what I mean) for awhile with one of them, and now I've moved onto her friend/roommate because the 1st girl was telling me how much she liked me, bla bla (a little too serious for me at this point in my life) ... so I aborted mission on that one.
In my case, I didn't exactly have to go look for a stripper, she found me. I'll tell you this though, if you find a good stripper you'll be a very lucky man.
My best advice would to try to find where all the strippers live at and try to meet one outside of her profession. i.e. not at the club.
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A few friends of mine have dated strippers - some multiple times. One friend even had strippers pay him to visit them while he was in med school, but those are some interesting stories in themselves. I remember witnessing one hook-up that started it all. They just hit it off at the strip club. Funny thing is, her first line to him was, "I have been so deprived of sex lately ever since my roommate got a boyfriend!"
I spoke to her on several occassions after that, and I remember my friend saying, "man, she's got a great body!" All I could respond with is, "I know... no, I mean, I KNOW!"
Strippers are a different breed. Its not like baggage of any kind, its another world, or rather... its an entire Mayflower moving truck!
I wouldn't go there, and I don't really see why that is your target if you are looking for an 'in'. Some people just hook up to hook up, and well, then there is a point of a relationship.
I spoke to her on several occassions after that, and I remember my friend saying, "man, she's got a great body!" All I could respond with is, "I know... no, I mean, I KNOW!"
Strippers are a different breed. Its not like baggage of any kind, its another world, or rather... its an entire Mayflower moving truck!
I wouldn't go there, and I don't really see why that is your target if you are looking for an 'in'. Some people just hook up to hook up, and well, then there is a point of a relationship.
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DON"T DO IT!!!! One of my best buddies ending up marrying a stripper. NOT GOOD! Ugly divorce.
His quote at work is always, "I may not know much, but one thing I can tell you is don't date or marry strippers!"
His quote at work is always, "I may not know much, but one thing I can tell you is don't date or marry strippers!"
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Schatten,
Some good points. I don't have any trouble meeting women, so I'm not particularly LOOKING for a stripper. But I was bored last night and went to a club to hang around and look at the merchandise, and this one girl took a liking to me, and I to her. I just wonder what might happen if I go back next week or something. Yes, chances are that she won't remember me. Strippers paying for sex? What kind of crazy economy is that? I honestly think that all the guys strippers meet all day are nasty guys who really do not make them feel good about themselves. I think I definitely made her feel good about herself, and I think she noticed. We talked about her life, her school and her recent bout of failures in school, her family, her music and literary interests, everything about her EXCEPT her job and the fact that she was sitting basically naked beside me. I reassured her about a lot of her decisions, and that she really would be able to find a job more meaningful than stripping.
Psicho54,
Yup, I'd much rather have met this girl at some other locale than at her work. First, I look dirty to her for being there, and second, I must assume she's only trying to get money when she's at work. But she gave me two table dances, and refused to take my payment -- she told me, and I quote, "I'd really rather you spend that on a nice dinner with me sometime." So I'm trying to decide if the girl was pulling some mad "now he'll have to come back and give me money every week" kinda trick, or if she was serious. She also must have mentioned me to the other girls, because several of them had pretty long conversations with me. One of them mentioned that the girl I like said I was sweet backstage. Yes, I tipped all the girls well, but probably not more than 25% more than anyone else there. I would only expect that kind of uniform attention if I was tipping c notes or if the girl really liked me and really said something about me.
So after a couple of hours of hanging out with her and watching her (the other guys, about ten, were a little annoyed that she pretty much spent all her attention on me on-stage), I ducked out of the club when she was in the back, but left a business card with one of the other girls for her. If she calls, I guess she wasn't just acting.
And yes, I tipped her the price of the table dances while she was on stage. She gave me a surprised look, wagged her finger "no" at me, mouthed "dinner", and, well, showed me everything there was to see for most of her song.
So I'm not really looking for a stripper girlfriend, but hey, I don't think I could say no either. It sounds like the particular girl you met, Schatten, might have some baggage -- her lesbianism with her roommie (god, what I would pay for that on-stage!) and that opening line would be big red flags to me that the girl is nuts. But then again, just tell her to get naked and be quiet.
- Warren
Some good points. I don't have any trouble meeting women, so I'm not particularly LOOKING for a stripper. But I was bored last night and went to a club to hang around and look at the merchandise, and this one girl took a liking to me, and I to her. I just wonder what might happen if I go back next week or something. Yes, chances are that she won't remember me. Strippers paying for sex? What kind of crazy economy is that? I honestly think that all the guys strippers meet all day are nasty guys who really do not make them feel good about themselves. I think I definitely made her feel good about herself, and I think she noticed. We talked about her life, her school and her recent bout of failures in school, her family, her music and literary interests, everything about her EXCEPT her job and the fact that she was sitting basically naked beside me. I reassured her about a lot of her decisions, and that she really would be able to find a job more meaningful than stripping.
Psicho54,
Yup, I'd much rather have met this girl at some other locale than at her work. First, I look dirty to her for being there, and second, I must assume she's only trying to get money when she's at work. But she gave me two table dances, and refused to take my payment -- she told me, and I quote, "I'd really rather you spend that on a nice dinner with me sometime." So I'm trying to decide if the girl was pulling some mad "now he'll have to come back and give me money every week" kinda trick, or if she was serious. She also must have mentioned me to the other girls, because several of them had pretty long conversations with me. One of them mentioned that the girl I like said I was sweet backstage. Yes, I tipped all the girls well, but probably not more than 25% more than anyone else there. I would only expect that kind of uniform attention if I was tipping c notes or if the girl really liked me and really said something about me.
So after a couple of hours of hanging out with her and watching her (the other guys, about ten, were a little annoyed that she pretty much spent all her attention on me on-stage), I ducked out of the club when she was in the back, but left a business card with one of the other girls for her. If she calls, I guess she wasn't just acting.
And yes, I tipped her the price of the table dances while she was on stage. She gave me a surprised look, wagged her finger "no" at me, mouthed "dinner", and, well, showed me everything there was to see for most of her song.
So I'm not really looking for a stripper girlfriend, but hey, I don't think I could say no either. It sounds like the particular girl you met, Schatten, might have some baggage -- her lesbianism with her roommie (god, what I would pay for that on-stage!) and that opening line would be big red flags to me that the girl is nuts. But then again, just tell her to get naked and be quiet.
- Warren
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Guntersmurf,
Yes, I've heard that. I've actually heard exactly two thoughts on it:
1) They're all freaking nuts and should avoided like the plague.
2) They're all pretty much normal, pretty girls, mostly students, who simply can't resist the possibility to make $400-$500 a night. After all, if I was female and hot, I would a stripper in a heartbeat. You know you would be, too. Do you think stripping makes a girl nuts, or do you think girls who are nuts choose to strip?
- Warren
Yes, I've heard that. I've actually heard exactly two thoughts on it:
1) They're all freaking nuts and should avoided like the plague.
2) They're all pretty much normal, pretty girls, mostly students, who simply can't resist the possibility to make $400-$500 a night. After all, if I was female and hot, I would a stripper in a heartbeat. You know you would be, too. Do you think stripping makes a girl nuts, or do you think girls who are nuts choose to strip?
- Warren
