Way to view private photobucket or myspace pics?
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Originally Posted by senor_flojo,Apr 21 2009, 04:11 PM
so wait, you're gonna say your "friend" is lying over a girl neither of you has met?
dude, get your priorities in check.
bro's before ho's
dude, get your priorities in check.
bro's before ho's
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Originally Posted by 3vilmonkey!,Apr 21 2009, 03:44 PM
So I just message my friend on AIM asking him what the messages are about. He starts explaining about how she used to have a myspace but deleted it a little while ago. After this he sends me some of the pictures of her when they very first started talking a year ago. The pictures he sends me are clearly a different girl than the ones on facebook. I honestly think my friend came up with a very lame story in order to get back at me for talking to her. I ask him after viewing these pictures what hes trying to prove, that I know they have hung out when he was back on leave and that the girl in "the old myspace" pictures is a different person.
He then says "Well, thats the thing.... we never hung out" I find this really hard to believe because my friend was about to wire this girl 5k for my bike 3 months prior. Who would send money to someone they have never met? All of this wasn't making sense to me so I just told my friend that I wasn't calling him a liar, but his information wasn't concrete.. they were just stories.
From here I called the girl back and the first thing I asked her (in conversation of course) was how many times they hung out. She told me, "Um about 4 times when he was back on leave" I then mentioned the jist of what he was saying to her and she got really upset telling me that she can't believe he said that about her and how he was one of the only people she trusted and how hurtful that was to her.
At this point I wasnt really sure who to believe, but it was easier to see that my friend was lying because he had more of a motive to do so. I am always open to information until its proven otherwise so I didn't shut the possibilty out.
I talked with him the next day more and he told me how one of our mutual friends saw this girl at a sea food place with friends on the day that she had her "heart and brain surgery" (which she did not wake up from until several hours after) He said that our friend said that the girl that is in the old myspace pictures was the real girl. I am getting pretty worked up at this point because seeing her in person was never an issue for me because I was under the impression that my friend hung out with her on multipule occasions. I mean, she was about to meet me up to bring me money for the motorcycle.
Still, I had no proof.. nothing concrete.. was this girl lying about EVERYTHING? Or was my friend lying to try to cause conflict between us? I had to find out for myself.
He then says "Well, thats the thing.... we never hung out" I find this really hard to believe because my friend was about to wire this girl 5k for my bike 3 months prior. Who would send money to someone they have never met? All of this wasn't making sense to me so I just told my friend that I wasn't calling him a liar, but his information wasn't concrete.. they were just stories.
From here I called the girl back and the first thing I asked her (in conversation of course) was how many times they hung out. She told me, "Um about 4 times when he was back on leave" I then mentioned the jist of what he was saying to her and she got really upset telling me that she can't believe he said that about her and how he was one of the only people she trusted and how hurtful that was to her.
At this point I wasnt really sure who to believe, but it was easier to see that my friend was lying because he had more of a motive to do so. I am always open to information until its proven otherwise so I didn't shut the possibilty out.
I talked with him the next day more and he told me how one of our mutual friends saw this girl at a sea food place with friends on the day that she had her "heart and brain surgery" (which she did not wake up from until several hours after) He said that our friend said that the girl that is in the old myspace pictures was the real girl. I am getting pretty worked up at this point because seeing her in person was never an issue for me because I was under the impression that my friend hung out with her on multipule occasions. I mean, she was about to meet me up to bring me money for the motorcycle.
Still, I had no proof.. nothing concrete.. was this girl lying about EVERYTHING? Or was my friend lying to try to cause conflict between us? I had to find out for myself.
Anyway, I started looking into things. My friend in Japan was doing some mad attention to detail. Things that he didnt notice before. There is a video on her facebook of her giving a friend a present.. after giving the present, she turns to the person with the camera and says "smile, say cheese" and afterwards you hear the person operating the camera say "hold up" and right after that it cuts off.
My friend said that the girl holding the camera has the voice of the girl on the phone. So I go and watch it, and yes, it does sound like the girl on the phone.. BUT there is another video on her page where the same girl who gave the present in the other video is playing with a baby and says "Oh hes so cute" and it sounds like the girl on the phone as well so I was confused still... maybe a bit in denial.
From here I decided to do my own research. She only has 10 friends on her facebook, which I honestly didnt think too much about. Some girls are like that. I looked at all of her "friends" posts and looked at the way they typed. I noticed a pattern. Every single one of them typed with ".." pauses.
For example:
"Hey hows it going..I'm fine how are you?"
These ".." without spaces were everywhere... posted from everyone. I then began looking at my text messages from her. ".."s were EVERYWHERE. Even her "sister" was e-mailing me about a job at Nissan, and I looked at her emails and sure enough there were ".." pauses.
This was opening my eyes to everything. All this time I spent with this girl... the days I called into work... The times I cried because I felt so bad for her situation... All of this wasn't her.
This girl is using one of her friends pictures and videos in a fake facebook profile with fake friends and fake comments... all lies.
My next mission is where the myspace came in. I wanted to get a final confirmation that she wasn't the girl in the pictures and videos she posted. I did a lot of research and finally came across a girl who knows the girl in the pictures and the girl who is pretending to be her.
After talking to her about random stuff, I asked her about the girls name who we thought was the girl in the pictures. I asked her what she looked like. Her reply was "short, big, wears a lot of make up and talks fast" This sealed it. From here I asked her about the girl in the pictures and her name is different of course.
I felt so used and so stupid. You guys can call me it if you want, but I tell you, this girl was GOOD. I wouldn't have given her a chance if I knew that my friend really hasn't seen her, but oh well, I can't change that now.
At the moment, I am planning to break the news to this friend of what shes doing as well as the girl whos pictures she is using. What I really really want to do is take a picture with the girl in the pictures and send it to the fake girl lol.
So right now I'm pretending like nothing is wrong with us, but I actually talked to her with my friend in Japan and s2kai last night on the phone, while I acted depressed. Its really hard to be on the phone with her now because all of her lies are so visible now it is so lame.
Whats really funny is today she told me she had another surgery and they put a pacemaker on her heart...
I def would have picked that one up. I just said "Oh my gosh... Im so sorry"Anyway... any suggestions?
