I'm shocked that: 1. you would consider this and 2. that so many people here are encouraging it. Sorry, but in my opinion it takes a disgustingly low person to be on either end of an affair. I'll keep this simple instead of getting on a soap box: that makes me sick.

 

I understand the temptation, but I can't recommend it.

I don't know if you're religious or not but this is one of the 10 commandments...a real biggie. I'm not that religious anymore, but I still understand it is wrong.

You could be in a world of hurt if she confesses. People are murdered all the time for stuff like this.

 

Don't do it bro! There are plenty of fish in the sea! If her husband finds out god only knows what could happen. He could come after you or even worse, she can turn on you and say you forced yourself on her or something of that nature. Then you would have both of them after you. It's happened before. Not worth it in my opinion.

 

Hey guys dont bag on him......he is looking for advice.

Listen carefully, for I have been on both side of the fence:O I have been cheated on (by girlfriend) and have had an affair with a married woman when I was younger).

The woman is very needy at this point, marrage probably in the pits, she is depressed being alone, and ....... horny. You will not get out of this unscathed. After you get down and dirty with her, she will get attached to you. She will come to love you, she will come to depend on you. Unless you are willing to marry her after a messy divorce then I say, get your rocks off somewhere else. I can garentee that if you get layed by another girl, you will almost immediately forget about her. And dont forget the other side of the equation, does she have kids? If she does, the forget about it. Nothing is worse than ruining the lives of some kids b/c of her and your lack of self control. That said, there is a small window of opportunity that you have..........you could get away with a quick roll in the hay, but remember, there is so much to loose.

Cons:
1) Hubby finding out and shooting you
2) Your coworkers/boss finding out (never shit where you eat, or even in the same building)
3) Devolping some STD (believe me, if the wife is cheating dont you think the hubby is too? You dont want a 4 way with the wife/husband/other woman)
4) The guilt of wrecking a marrage
5) Having some crazy old b.... stalking you cause you led her to believe that you would be there for her
6) And did I mention the husband finding out and shooting you?

Pros:
1) Well you know what number one is
2) Not having to spring for an expensive date/dates/gifts
3) You can still see other women.....I dont think this woman would be hanging out on the town at 12 at night so there is really no chance of her seeing/catching you
4) did i mention free sex?

If you decide to do it here are a few tips:

1) NEVER call her cell or have her call you via cell (phone bills/records)
2) Never email each other, she probably has what ever emails that you have already sent to her saved in a folder.......could be used against you later
3) Never IM, she could copy, paste, and save all of your messages
4) Never take pictures
5) Put all of your shoes and clothing in a neat pile by the foot of the bed, you never know when you have to make a hasty exit.
6) Have an excape route pre-planned and rehearse (like a fire drill your life WILL depend on it)
7) Always wear protection and keep the condom wrappers in your pocket, never throw away in garbage for obvious reasons
8) Never wear after shave/cologne (residual smells)
9) Dont shower at her place
10) NEVER allow her to find out where you live, you dont need ghosts haunting you.
11) ESTABLISH the boundries early, drive home the message that you are not looking to replace her husband (not interested in marrage).
12) Make her call her husband at the place he is staying (and not his cell) before you visit her, the worst thing is for him to come home on a suprise visit and.....suprise!
13) Always check and double check, if i suspected my wife of cheating, i would hire a private investigator.

All in all, I would say that it's not worth it. But if you HAVE to and cant control yourself, then stick to these guidelines!!!!! If you dont have the self discipline to follow these simple rules, you will get caught. I am ashamed to say that I was able to carry out an affair for over 2 years without getting caught. Let us know what you decide.

 

man thats just fcuked up.

Don't mess with that you home wrecker !

and that guy that posted above me, You are one crazy ....

I'd kick your ass if I found you in my bedroom, you and your planned out situations. I'd make a plan if i found somebody in my bedroom... you'd be the gimp just like in the movie pulp fiction, But somebody else would be _____ you

 

I'm sure you know deep down inside yourself what the real answer is. And no, I'm not referring to your horniness. Don't do it.

 

 

do it do it

 

why are people so concerned about wrecking this woman's marriage and/or family?? has it occurred to you guys that this woman probably has the tendancy and intention to cheat on her husband regardless if scotchtape decides to pursue this affair or not?? if this woman's marriage gets screwed because of an affair, it is in no way scotchtape's fault, but instead the fault of this woman's decision. i mean, if scotchtape passes on the opportunity, chances are this woman will pursue an affair with another individual when the next opportunity arises.


scotchtape: as to whether or not you should pursue this affair, as long as it is consensual then theorectically it is fine. but keep in mind that there are violent, and irrational people out there, meaning if you choose to have an affair with this woman, be ready for this woman's husband to possibly retaliate in a violent way. this in no way means you deserve to be harmed by this woman's husband, cuz after all no one would be having an affair with this guy's wife if she had not consented to it.

 

Subconscious mind never lies...

Personally, I wouldn't =F, only b/c she's married.