post pics - do it.

 

Jeez you guys are really making excellant points. Miatabuff007 has some really good points about how to do it successfully but it kinda made me think "holy crap look how much stuff I have to watch out for that I didn't even think about before". Shit I was going to call her cell phone this week and invite her over to my apartment. Good thing I read his suggestions cause otherwise I would have been a sitting duck already.

I am still really on the edge over here. The whole "husband killing me" thing is really not too good. The whole moral thing about sleeping with a married woman is big too but that makes it all the more exciting, you know? Probably a lot of you think I am a huge asshole for even thinking about this, but I am just being honest and telling you my thoughts and feelings.

 

you are not an a$$hole. go ahead and have the affair if you want to, only be ready to deal with the consequences.

 

[QUOTE=munckee,Nov 14 2004, 11:43 PM]I'm shocked that:

 

^ that's alright. just carry a gun with you at all times. if the husband was fulfulling his wife physically, emotionally, spiritually, and/or mentally, then the wife wouldn't find the need to cheat. husbands need to look at themselves more closely before they wrecklessly blame it on the guy shagging his wife.

 

Don't assume the dead guy wasn't armed, Junkie. And what kind of pathetic loser is so desperate for sex with some other guy's wife that the need to carry a gun sounds like a good idea? How sad that someone could be so hard up (pun intended) that they need to arm themselves and are willing to shoot someone just to get a little.

 

don't do it at your place. pics.

 

Scotch,

Having been a husband who was cheated on myself I can tell you that you will get the F--- beat out of you. Also, a cheating wife is not getting fulfilled in some way (emotionally, spiritually or sexually) and this is her reckless cry for help. I can also tell you from experience that a reckless, unhappy wife does not cover her tracks very well. There are plenty great single girls out there with much less baggage - steer clear of this mess.

-s

 

it's just self defense. a big part of life is making informed decisions and then assuming the consequences of your decisions. if you make the decision to refrain from certain actions due to the potential fear of someone else harming you, then you are in effect allowing this other person to "control" your life. i am not condoning that one have an affair with a married women. instead, i am suggesting that one should make the decision while being aware of the potential consequences and be prepared to deal with the consequences if and when they occur.

 

^^ I agree 100% about accepting the consequences. I just can't see how the risk is worth it in this case.

I also think it's wrong to have an affair with a married woman.