I usually take it as a compliment. I know my wife's (even when we were just dating) as faithful as one can get, so I have no worries at all.

Although, if a guy hits on her when I'm right next to her, that's disrespectful- he better watch it!

 

A couple years ago, my bf was telling me about a time his company sent him to Spain on business. He described a beautiful park in the middle of the city where people hung out in the evening.

He told me that this woman "dressed very badly" approached him, and asked him to buy her a drink. He did out of sympathy...and then walked away....which got her mad...as he was not knowing that she was trying to proposition him!

A few weeks later, he was sent back to Spain, and this time I got to go with him. He told me to the same park, and I was just mesmerized by the beauty of it. As we were walking around, a odd-looking woman purposefully walked up to him, and asked him if he would buy her a drink (while I was right beside him).

He brushed her off, saying that he still couldn't believe that a prostitute would approach him. I found the whole exchange to be verrrrrrry funny...and to this day, it still makes me laugh.

 

 

okay
1) dont get so overly protective cause that means you dont trust her, or youre just too dang uptight
2) be proud someone wants to go with her, but when you show up next to her, play it cool, the other guy is bound to walk off that embarassment
3) yes I would be a bit jealous if someone was hitting on my gf, but showing another guy off only makes you look like an ass (just remember, shes YOURS, not theirs.)

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by KookyBastard32
okay

 

Well if I was a guy and some other man was hitting on my gf i'd be bothered but then at the same time i'd be happy my girl looks as good as she does. I wouldn't worry about it. But this is my opinion.
~Julie~

 

I don't mind other guys hitting on my girlfriend, as long as they're respectful and don't touch her in any way.

 

I know how you feel because it used to irk me. I used to get jealous pretty bad when guys hit on my gf. Most of her friends are guys. But that was early in our relationship. Of course over time, the trust keeps building. And I actually like it when guys try to hit on my gf. Because I know she's fine and it comes with the territory and she's all mine .

 

my girl gets hit on constantly.....I mean I cannot go anywhere without guys whistling and even following us just to get a glimps of my beauty.......she has even caused wrecks while driving in the S with the top down....it's a pain but worth it

 

I'd take it as a compliment. As long as your girl stays with you, that's all that matters. Being jealous, is a major sign that there is lack of trust in the relationship. That my friend, is a recipe for a major break up