So I recently pissed off a girl that i've been seeing. It wasn't intentional, but it just ended up that way. It was wrong of what I did. What I did doesn't really matter. All that matters is that I was wrong.

I'm just really sorry and I feel really bad. I want to make it up to her somehow but I'm not sure how. I'd do flowers, but I just gave that to her on friday as a kind gesture. Anyone got any other advise?? I really like this girl..

 

I think gals like simply things....I would do something nice like rose petals and if you cook maybe a supprise dinner..... they love shit like that......

 

you don't need shit except know how to talk to her....REALLY talk to her.

Also it better be something ridiculously awful, it would be easier if we knew what it was. I'd say 50/50 shot it's not that bad.

 

Ya ever notice we're always the one f***in' up?

It's either:
1. We just don't get how this relationship thing works or...
2. It's a female conspiracy. We're not actually messing up, it's just they make us think that we are.

 

Why are you telling us how sorry you are? Tell her.

How bad you messed up will determine what you need to do to make it up to her. I just hope you didn't do anything of Kobe proportions.

 

Well no, i didn't mess up as bad as kobe or clinton. Those require big rocks and more.

And it probably isn't as bad as you guys think it is, but i don't like to underestimate these things. If you do, then it just ends up getting worse.

Thanks for the advice. I'll see what i can do. More advice is also appreciated.

 

I think a huge part of this is just learning how the other person is...

 

I've always appreciated a humble, honest apology. You don't need to buy her anything.

 

nothing is more important than open communication. be frank and honest with her. it might all be a misunderstanding. like you said it wasn't intentional, so you have to let her know that. don't let stuff bottled up inside...it will drive you two apart. and nothing is worse than not addressing the issue right away cuz you can always work to make things better.

 

its a test----women love to do this---just use some reverse psychology and act like youre mad too. If youve already hit it--who cares.