I think maybe you should show her this thread. It will show how bad you felt about hurting her and how you would be willing to humuliate yourself to find a way to make it up to her.

Oh yeah, also next time tell her how sorry you are. Flowers arent all girls friends; (I dont like getting them because I would rather have something that lasts). A teddy bear or some cute stuffed animal would work too. Hell, I still have the bear my hubby gave me on our first Valentines day .

 

I dunno if she would to keen on that.. she doesn't really like personal things being posted. I don't think she views these forums.. at least i hope not.. lol

however, i will take your words of advice.. well, most of you guys/gals

thanks

 

Dude, if you're a good sweet talker like I am, you wouldn't need flowers or gifts. My words will melt her heart like no flowers or gifts can ever do.

 

a weekend getaway to talk things through.

 

so u still haven't told us what u did???

 

Yeah, I wanna know now too

 

me too I think guys a lot of the time don't know how sensative us girls are, you need to be sweet and talk to her, a dinner, drive, do something that she likes and be sincere and apologize.....Make sure she knows that you care, don't make it seem like you don't...!

 

I wasn't going to tell, but oh whatever..

Went behind her back to try figure out how i should be acting since there wasn't much communication going on. I was a bit lost. I didn't ask what was going on. If she doesn't want to tell me that's fine.

She thought i was trying to pry and find out stuff. I think she still believes that, but i'm not going to argue with it. I'd rather just concede...

Everything is fine now. I didn't do anything besides lay low. She seems really pissed! I may have lost some ground since this is pretty much the begining of things.. I can make that up though.

 

Sounds like you have sorrow for whatever you did, so just let her know that. They like when you admit you screwed up and you're sorry.

 

If I were you I'd pick something that she wanted you to do before and you told her that you will never do it. Flowers are nice but you really want to go the extra mile, something she really likes like underwear or a cute lovely sorry looking stuffed animal like a soft bear etc.

Either way I hope you kiss and make up, a good woman is difficult to find, hey tell her that as well.