i think most guys know the feeling of being young, having fun and generally living the 'bachelors life.' and i think most know also what its like to be potentially in that same situation, but instead be in a serious relationship at a young age. out of all the decisions in life, most seem to have been done well, on the surface, in being successful in college, managing a healthy social life, having a good exercise regimen and staying physically attractive, but relationship status is the kicker. its an almost Impossible decision! what young guy Didn't watch Wedding Crashers and atleast lightly daydream about the perks of such a commitmentless free lifestyle. it seems like, at this age, theres a dilemma for me, and i know for a lot of other guys, as to "where to go from here." you can love someone deeply and still want to be apart from them, simply because youre... indecisive? young? want to experience more(even though enough ends up never being enough)? what happens when you let that special one go and find out life's not like the movies, even though it seems like it could be when youve got someone (girls love already taken guys, and dont forget that 90% of pretty ones are very unstable), and then you realize you left the best thing you could've had and its gone for good. whats up with this whole Institution Of Marriage anyway? whys it so confining, almost impossible to do correctly, and at the same time, so highly desirable. damn, what a rant. my bad.

 

Go lay some new pipe - it'll clear your head.

. . . as far as when? When you start thinkin' you don't wanna be the old guy at the club.

. . . with who? Someone who doesn't drive you bat- crazy. . . and who isn't bat crazy. . . someone who you can grow with. . . because you don't stop growing mentally until you bite the big one.

 

haha, very funny very true

"the old guy at the club" -

 

Are you ninety ing years old? How do you know that she was the best thing you ever "could" have had? Get over it move on there's another one waiting to take her place.

 

yea, that line deserves this

 

Any woman that makes you feel that she was the one, and doesn't come back to you. . . isn't the one.

When you act based on your fears instead of the facts you have signed yourself up for a world