headgasket gone!

cooling liquid is mixing with your oil

 

dipstick is completely clean and only shows oil, coolant is completely clean and only shows coolant, anything else it could be? (since i want to hold out hope that it isn't the headgasket...)

 

mmmmm.....

You can check your oil filter to be sure.
where did the stuff on your finger come from ?

 

the turbo/exhaust manifold/downpipe

 

bad valve guides maybe or even worse a cracked head.

 

It might be your turbo. Does your turbo have water lines connected to it?

 

no, just oil lines to turbo, turbo is bad according to shop (shoots out oil), but there is no coolant going to it

 

could a turbo that is bad from the factory (i purchased it brand new and it was shooting out oil as soon as it was installed), cause this? or does it have to be something else, too?

engine was great before turbo kit install, turbo kit was installed, turbo started shooting out this stuff and oil

 

than i think its the ceiling in the turno thats broken