oh theres a menber that has a ripped soft top and is parting it out,
selling strips to peoples top who is teared so they could patch it, so
i think he would be willing to sell it to you, but i cant seem to find the post anymore D:
try looking around in For Sale section.

 

if anyone finds it can they send me a link?! and also u cant just order it from honda?

 

looks like it could be part #10 (#10 is driver's side---#7 is passenger side) ----if so, it's $39 new

http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/...SOFT+TOP+FRAME

this is for an '05---all years should be similar but put your actual model year in to make sure its the right part number

 

It's replaceable. The Honda dealership tore the rubber on mine when they replaced my top, and they had no problem getting a new one to replace it.

 

should i get it done at the dealership? how much would it cost me?