Yeah I've seen the sticker that showed all the fuses. Hah, silly me. It's possible it may have something to do with the AEM.

 

this may not even be the issue, but do you still have the secondary air system in the car? the voltage regulator for mine got some water in it, and was acting up doing the same things yours was.

it would be inside your drivers side fender, little black box with a few larger wires coming out of it

 

I'll take a look at that when I get back to Honda. I work there so I can check on my car at any time.

 

Update: I was driving around on the freeway, came to a stoplight and the car suddeenly died. Nothing worked even with the key turned. Only the hazard lights. All lights shut off. A minute later, everything turned on.

 

loose wire or those damn mice put their boot your ass

 

Turns out it was the 100amp battery fuse was a little loose, tightened it up and worked nicely. Still trying to figure out those other problems.
Damn them mice! haha.

 

get the codes cleared and run around some more, see if they come back on. let us know