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Originally Posted by 12bars uh huh,Sep 16 2008, 06:59 PM
Bass!Long time no see!
Do you know the difference between surprise and panic?
Surprise is the first time you find out you can't do it twice.
Panic is the second time you can't do it once.
Don't panic yet!

ahhhh crap the never ending story
guess i'm having dinner with NL on friday so we can discuss "it"
she wants to know how i feel
me - hey we're both adults sometimes things happen (and sometimes they don't
) and i am kind of glad things didn't you know go all the way if you know what i mean"
NL - oh don;t worry about that - i just want to know how you feel
me - what happened did not affect our friendship in a negative way at all!! i just don't know if i want to be with anyone now and who knows maybe it was just something like friends with benefits
NL - what does that mean
me
ok Vintage people - how do i let NL down easy?? i do like her as a friend and i take responsibility of what did / did not transpire and 99.8% of the time i am in control and can ward of NLs advances but this one time i slipped
just want some advice on what to say so i don;t hurt her feelings and also so i don;t end up getting married to NL
guess i'm having dinner with NL on friday so we can discuss "it"
she wants to know how i feel
me - hey we're both adults sometimes things happen (and sometimes they don't
) and i am kind of glad things didn't you know go all the way if you know what i mean" NL - oh don;t worry about that - i just want to know how you feel
me - what happened did not affect our friendship in a negative way at all!! i just don't know if i want to be with anyone now and who knows maybe it was just something like friends with benefits
NL - what does that mean
me

ok Vintage people - how do i let NL down easy?? i do like her as a friend and i take responsibility of what did / did not transpire and 99.8% of the time i am in control and can ward of NLs advances but this one time i slipped
just want some advice on what to say so i don;t hurt her feelings and also so i don;t end up getting married to NL












