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From: Franklin MA
Originally Posted by DrCloud,Sep 17 2008, 09:49 PM
Another strategy -- and I won't comment on its ethical implications -- is to go to dinner in the innocent mode, as if nothing whatsoever happened. You can make this credible by apologizing for being so hammered that you don't remember anything about the previous occasion. Non-romantic flowers (aren't yellow roses supposed to be for friendship?) would lend the apology more credibility. HPH
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From: Smalltown
Originally Posted by DrCloud,Sep 17 2008, 10:10 PM
Hmm. You're probably right, Martha. I though yellow ones would send a non-romantic message, but maybe it's too risky.
Gotta minimize the risk on this one.
HPH
Gotta minimize the risk on this one.
HPH
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From: Canton, MA
Originally Posted by Bass,Sep 17 2008, 07:06 PM
ahhhh crap the never ending story
guess i'm having dinner with NL on friday so we can discuss "it"
she wants to know how i feel
me - hey we're both adults sometimes things happen (and sometimes they don't
) and i am kind of glad things didn't you know go all the way if you know what i mean"
NL - oh don;t worry about that - i just want to know how you feel
me - what happened did not affect our friendship in a negative way at all!! i just don't know if i want to be with anyone now and who knows maybe it was just something like friends with benefits
NL - what does that mean
me
ok Vintage people - how do i let NL down easy?? i do like her as a friend and i take responsibility of what did / did not transpire and 99.8% of the time i am in control and can ward of NLs advances but this one time i slipped
just want some advice on what to say so i don;t hurt her feelings and also so i don;t end up getting married to NL
guess i'm having dinner with NL on friday so we can discuss "it"
she wants to know how i feel
me - hey we're both adults sometimes things happen (and sometimes they don't
) and i am kind of glad things didn't you know go all the way if you know what i mean" NL - oh don;t worry about that - i just want to know how you feel
me - what happened did not affect our friendship in a negative way at all!! i just don't know if i want to be with anyone now and who knows maybe it was just something like friends with benefits
NL - what does that mean
me
ok Vintage people - how do i let NL down easy?? i do like her as a friend and i take responsibility of what did / did not transpire and 99.8% of the time i am in control and can ward of NLs advances but this one time i slipped
just want some advice on what to say so i don;t hurt her feelings and also so i don;t end up getting married to NL
"NL, I get horney like everyone else, and when I drink, I just act on impulse. It's a bad habit and I try to control it, but hey, I also try to quit smoking and drinking and you know how that hasn't worked out. You're my friend and I want to keep it that way and i don't want my bad behavior to spoil that. I'm sorry I hit on you when I was drunk. I'll try not to do it again. The good news is, if I do do it again, I'm usually so drunk I can't perform anyway, so no real harm done, You just have to wipe off some Bass drool.
Are you gonna eat that steak?
Can I borrow your Tractor tomorrow?"
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i like the way you speak bill!!!
i'll have to rehearse that because if i try from memory it might sound like this
" ahh ahhh oh dear NL i get drunk and then drool...
Are you gonna eat that steak?
Can I borrow your Tractor tomorrow?"
i'll have to rehearse that because if i try from memory it might sound like this
" ahh ahhh oh dear NL i get drunk and then drool...
Are you gonna eat that steak?
Can I borrow your Tractor tomorrow?"