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Maybe now is the time for me to give you some really bad dating advice 
But I won't because I'm a nice person
Most of the time
She might settle for friends with benefits once you explain that to her
But if you need 5 shots of whiskey to make her attractive then it's probably not a good deal for you either.
Good luck
But I won't because I'm a nice person
Most of the time She might settle for friends with benefits once you explain that to her
But if you need 5 shots of whiskey to make her attractive then it's probably not a good deal for you either.Good luck
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Friends with benefits is BAD idea when the woman lives so close to you.
Going out to dinner may also be a bad idea, unless you talk first and let her know that the only relationship you want is friendship, and you must tell here you "are really, really sorry if you mislead her the other night." Do not drink before you have this talk. You must both be sober, and have all your wits about you. (Well as many wits as you possess). Don't let your guard down. If all else fails, just tell her you are gay.
There is nothing wrong with that either.
Going out to dinner may also be a bad idea, unless you talk first and let her know that the only relationship you want is friendship, and you must tell here you "are really, really sorry if you mislead her the other night." Do not drink before you have this talk. You must both be sober, and have all your wits about you. (Well as many wits as you possess). Don't let your guard down. If all else fails, just tell her you are gay.
There is nothing wrong with that either.
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Originally Posted by Bass,Sep 17 2008, 08:22 PM
5 shots 
figure there must be 4 shots in each manhattan so we're talking about 20 shots
figure there must be 4 shots in each manhattan so we're talking about 20 shots
dont do it.Sidenote glad to see your on vintage
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Originally Posted by Lainey,Sep 17 2008, 08:27 PM
Friends with benefits is BAD idea when the woman lives so close to you.
Going out to dinner may also be a bad idea, unless you talk first and let her know that the only relationship you want is friendship, and you must tell here you "are really, really sorry if you mislead her the other night." Do not drink before you have this talk. You must both be sober, and have all your wits about you. (Well as many wits as you possess). Don't let your guard down. If all else fails, just tell her you are gay.
There is nothing wrong with that either.
Going out to dinner may also be a bad idea, unless you talk first and let her know that the only relationship you want is friendship, and you must tell here you "are really, really sorry if you mislead her the other night." Do not drink before you have this talk. You must both be sober, and have all your wits about you. (Well as many wits as you possess). Don't let your guard down. If all else fails, just tell her you are gay.
There is nothing wrong with that either.
yet some more great advice but we know what i do with your great advice 
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Originally Posted by Bass,Sep 17 2008, 08:59 PM
yet some more great advice but we know what i do with your great advice
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Originally Posted by dean,Sep 17 2008, 09:11 PM
I think it's the best advice you're going to get. Ignore it at your own peril and be sure to let us know where you've registered for wedding gifts.
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From: EstesPark/BocaRaton
Another strategy -- and I won't comment on its ethical implications -- is to go to dinner in the innocent mode, as if nothing whatsoever happened. You can make this credible by apologizing for being so hammered that you don't remember anything about the previous occasion. Non-romantic flowers (aren't yellow roses supposed to be for friendship?) would lend the apology more credibility. HPH