Re-marry, I think that is best answered; I just had my 22nd anniversary of my divorce. I raised 3 kids, put two kids through college without help. Lost one son to a traffic accident, which created a greater rift between us. Wish my ex the best of everything in her life, but would not remarry her. Of course she probably says the same about me. I can say that I am not lonesome with car shows and rallyes, work, caring for an older parent, i stay to busy to think about being lonely. V

 

Dean and Doc C,
Is this a Florida thing? We were thinking about a winter place in Fl, but.....

And yes, after 32 years of mostly wedded bliss, I would not hesitate.

 

No, I spread my converts up and down the eastern seaboard.

 

My jury is still out on re-marrying my first and only husband of what would have been 41 years next month. I can't imagine him changing enough for that to happen (not to mentioni he's remarried, (duh!) but I also can't imagine being married to anybody else(yet). And women don't have what I need and can't do a thing for me. Talk about your conundrum!

So, I'll just continue to enjoy my singlehood while it lasts if you don't mind. Not to mention how scary it is out there these days with some the dating horror stories I'm hearing. Dean's lesbians would be the least of my worries. The DL is far scarier.

 

Since this is true confessions.... I should add chapter 1. I would NOT re-marry the first that I caught. I threw him back and it was a good thing. We were way too young, and neither of us had a clue.

It took me seven years of "living in sin" to decide that it was OK to try the marriage thing again. This time I give it a 22 years of marriage in August.

 

Hmm, well I hadn't thought of that -- this DID happen to be a FL ex. Hmm. But it probably didn't have to do with me -- she married and had kids before seeing the higher, um, calling. (No, wait. It wasn't she that became the nun...)

Anyway, I blame it on the other guy. HPH

 

[QUOTE=Lainey8484,Jul 11 2006, 08:51 AM] Since this is true confessions....

 

[QUOTE=grannyrod,Jul 11 2006, 10:58 AM] It just depends on the right person at the right time (that and having time to look and develop relationship) but trust me Lainey, 22 years ago, it was a different world than what's out there now.

 

Would not re-marry my ex!!! Oh God I don't know what I was thinking in the first place! (No thinking, at least not with the correct brain).

Current wife, hell yeah I'd re-marry her (Allthough, I'd wait until her kids and my kids were out of the house)

 

I am aghast! Absolutely aghast, I tell you! Although, I'm not really sure what a ghast is. Is it anything like a lert?