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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 03:01 PM
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Was talking to a few friends over whether you'd re-marry someone? Would you?
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 03:14 PM
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Do you mean would I marry the same person all over again, or would I marry someone else if something happened to my husband? Yes to the first option and I doubt it to the second.
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 03:21 PM
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Very interesting!!! Of the 3 guy friends I hang out with, 2 said yes and 1 said no, 4 of the girls who I've asked also said no! Hmmm I wonder if this says anything about the guy???
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 03:27 PM
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Sorry to be anal, but it's not clear if you mean if you had it to do all over again, would you still marry the same person?

Was that 4 of 4 gals that all said no?
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 03:37 PM
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This is one of those questions that nobody really can answer with any accuracy until the situation actually comes up.

I know lots of people who said they'd never marry another but after they lost their mate and met someone else they changed their minds.

People shouldn't be lonely.
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Dex9,Jul 10 2006, 06:27 PM
Was that 4 of 4 gals that all said no?
So none of them would re-marry the man they married - HIDE THIS THREAD FROM MY WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted by wantone,Jul 10 2006, 07:21 PM
Very interesting!!! Of the 3 guy friends I hang out with, 2 said yes and 1 said no, 4 of the girls who I've asked also said no! Hmmm I wonder if this says anything about the guy???
My ex and all of my former girlfriends are now lesbians if that tells you anything.
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 04:22 PM
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Lost post I'll try again.

I've often asked Rick if he'd marry me again. His reply Most days.

I'd marry him again, it's worked well for us.

As to if I'd re-marry if something happened to him, I agree with Rob, it's hard to answer that question.
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by dean
My ex and all of my former girlfriends are now lesbians...
I recently learned that I'm in a similar boat vis-a-vis one of my old girlfriends.

Having thought this over some, I've come to the conclusion that there are two possible, and contradictory, explanations (at least two self-centric ones), and I'm not going to expound on either. HPH

(I have to admit, though, to other possibilities than those self-centric ones. But ego is such a wonderful thing that it's a hard admission. )
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Old Jul 10, 2006 | 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by DrCloud,Jul 10 2006, 08:30 PM
I have to admit, though, to other possibilities than those self-centric ones. But ego is such a wonderful thing that it's a hard admission. )
Here's a conundrum for you - Which would be harder on your ego, your ex wife/GF becoming a lesbian or your ex wife/GF becoming a cloistered nun?
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