Am I a bad person........
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From: Milford, CT
VR WHAT,
Hey I'm contemplating this myself, but I am already 30! Dude, your only 25 you got a long way to go... Enjoy your life now. Trust me man. Damn, I couldn't even imagine marriage when I was 25
. I guess there was too much 
to do!
In the end it will be your decision. Just make sure you really want them.
Hey I'm contemplating this myself, but I am already 30! Dude, your only 25 you got a long way to go... Enjoy your life now. Trust me man. Damn, I couldn't even imagine marriage when I was 25
. I guess there was too much to do!In the end it will be your decision. Just make sure you really want them.
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I've seen the issue of kids break up several marriages. The best looking woman I know lost her husband primarily because she was ready to have kids and he didn't want to have anything to do with them.
Sounds simple, but IMO, the best course of action is to be up front and honest about how you feel. If you don't, you'll end up needing to have that conversation sooner or later.
FYI, I'm with you. I have absolutely ZERO desire to have kids myself and I have made that very clear to my gf. I have several other firends and coworkers that I know who are the same way.
Sounds simple, but IMO, the best course of action is to be up front and honest about how you feel. If you don't, you'll end up needing to have that conversation sooner or later.
FYI, I'm with you. I have absolutely ZERO desire to have kids myself and I have made that very clear to my gf. I have several other firends and coworkers that I know who are the same way.
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get ur nuts clipped then tell her you cant have any.....problem solved
I applaud your decision, and it does quite the opposite of making you a bad person; it demonstrates a lot of maturity, responsibility, and consciousness on your part, and it is a nice thing to see in today's society of rampant irresponsibility. The worst thing you could do to a child is bring it into a world that's not ready to care for it properly.
[QUOTE]Hey I'm contemplating this myself, but I am already 30! Dude, your only 25 you got a long way to go... Enjoy your life now. Trust me man. Damn, I couldn't even imagine marriage when I was 25 . I guess there was too much
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Although I'm only 19 I have no desire to have children. I like the fact that I'm in a financial position to build a beautiful house, drive an incredible car, and have all the toys I want.
if I had kids these luxury's would be impossible to have. I'd be driving a minivan and living in a condo.
I'll think about having kids if and when I'm in the financial position to afford to have a kid or two, and still continue to live my current lifestyle.
if I had kids these luxury's would be impossible to have. I'd be driving a minivan and living in a condo.
I'll think about having kids if and when I'm in the financial position to afford to have a kid or two, and still continue to live my current lifestyle.
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great discussion Chris
DO NOT get forced into a lifetime commitment that will take up a huge chunk of your limited (and therefore, precious) time and money.
You're right; condoms suck. But I still use them. I gotta admit; they're like batteries that allow you to keep going, and going, and going.........
Thanx,
Chris
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I'll think about having kids if and when I'm in the financial position to afford to have a kid or two, and still continue to live my current lifestyle.
Chris