[QUOTE]Originally posted by VR WHAT

 

So true

Chris

I still feel like I'm wasting her time with,"maybe's, and you never know." Because if those turn into,"maybe not, and never", she'll be disappointed and hurt I hadn't told her earlier.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by VR WHAT

 

Thanx alot
Chris

 

I think that the best thing you can do is be honest about your feelings. My guy and I both both have the same opinion on whether or not we want kids, but realize that one of us might change our minds later. As long as I know he's being honest with me about how he feels about the subject when it's discussed, that's enough. Mature people realize that feelings can change, and that if it a big, life-changing decision then you owe it to your partner to tell them that you're feeling differently. That's all that I can promise him in exchange; if I ever change my mind, I'll tell him and we'll talk about it.

 

The talk about no kids is coming next Friday Don't want to spoil the holidays. We've talked about it before and I've unassuredly said I don't want them. But wasn't firm about it. However, next Friday..........................

Chris

 

Chris you aren't a bad person for not wanting kids, your what...25? Your probably going to change your mind when you get older and want to settle down. Just don't make the mistake of having kids to make your girl happy, only have them when you are ready.
Take Care!
~*~Julie~*~

 

No rush mang. It's big change in lifestyle style as well as responsibility for the rest of your life. I say if you have doubts or are on sure now, then it's definably a bad idea. When your ready to have kid's you'll know. If you can't decide and or stressing over it, then for sure it's just not the right time. Good luck, I hope all goes well.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by VR WHAT

 

Or anyone else for that matter. I would imagine it has to be a mutual agreement.

Exactly what I'm afraid of.

I've considered everyone's opinions Thanx

Chris