So My girlfriend has a drinking problem she gets drunk often and I always need to cleanup and watch out after her when she does. It drives me nuts. Of course since I do really feel that I love her I kind of just dealt with it for the past year. I've asked her if she can stop many many times but it doesnt seem like it is working. Now I am in a hospital where she lays with a broken nose rib and cheek bone from drinking and driving. I hope this will teach her a lesson. There were flowers sent to our door from an anonymous person so I went down to the flower shop to find out who sent it and it was her ex boyfriend. The funny thing is that the only way he couldve known she was in the hospital is if she called him when they brought her in the ER. She says I was the first she called but I dont believe her. I guess she might rely more and think more of her ex in times of distress. What do you guys think?

 

Dump her? Harsh but may be necessary. Don't put up with that type of behavior, ever. Let her get away with it once and you are labeled a push over and she will continue to do it, regardless of consequences.