Cheating Would you do it?
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Originally Posted by trainwreck,Nov 24 2009, 02:30 PM
lawyer up asap.
you are in denial right now. you need somebody that can think clearly and represent your best interest.
geebus man, that bitch is riding some other dude and giving him BJs. time to graduate from denial to straight up rage.
after you get a lawyer, call up her place of employment and report the boss to HR.
you are in denial right now. you need somebody that can think clearly and represent your best interest.
geebus man, that bitch is riding some other dude and giving him BJs. time to graduate from denial to straight up rage.
after you get a lawyer, call up her place of employment and report the boss to HR.
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Originally Posted by GateCrasher,Nov 24 2009, 02:38 PM
but it's also good to keep in mind that people rarely follow these in a linear fashion and often go back and forth between them. 03_AP1: Ultimately, everyone here can give advice, but you know her far better than any of us (ie whether you think she actually has intentions of making it work). Trust whatever your gut (NOT your heart) is saying. Most assuredly your heart is saying, "Make it work," but if your instinct says something else, then don't ignore it, no matter how hard that is.
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Originally Posted by shareall,Nov 24 2009, 03:34 PM
Stages of grief can be really helpful here but it's also good to keep in mind that people rarely follow these in a linear fashion and often go back and forth between them.
03_AP1: Ultimately, everyone here can give advice, but you know her far better than any of us (ie whether you think she actually has intentions of making it work). Trust whatever your gut (NOT your heart) is saying. Most assuredly your heart is saying, "Make it work," but if your instinct says something else, then don't ignore it, no matter how hard that is.
but it's also good to keep in mind that people rarely follow these in a linear fashion and often go back and forth between them. 03_AP1: Ultimately, everyone here can give advice, but you know her far better than any of us (ie whether you think she actually has intentions of making it work). Trust whatever your gut (NOT your heart) is saying. Most assuredly your heart is saying, "Make it work," but if your instinct says something else, then don't ignore it, no matter how hard that is.
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sorry to hear about the shitty situation.
Fact is, only you know the situation and how you value all the things in it. Many of us would say, If I ever caught that bitch cheating, I would gtfo immediately. But the truth is, when it comes down to it, its a completely different scenario and if you truly love that person, your willing to do things that you never ever could see yourself doing before it all happened just to make it work. Granted, there are limits and only so much one person can bring to the table. Sucks the kids have to be affected by it.
Fact is, only you know the situation and how you value all the things in it. Many of us would say, If I ever caught that bitch cheating, I would gtfo immediately. But the truth is, when it comes down to it, its a completely different scenario and if you truly love that person, your willing to do things that you never ever could see yourself doing before it all happened just to make it work. Granted, there are limits and only so much one person can bring to the table. Sucks the kids have to be affected by it.
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Nov 24 2009, 12:49 PM
Jesus Christ...... Dr.Phil called, he wants his obvious and not helpful advice back.
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Originally Posted by JoeyBalls,Nov 21 2009, 02:09 PM
What I would do, or what I have done in the past, if you are about to go to some other womens room etc, just one rub out, you'll come to your senses,
I lost my fiancee from that bullcrap. And it leaves you a BAD reputation in social circles.
I am a handsome bastard and have always had girls after me. Whenever you get tempted, have some "alone time" in the shower or something and afterwards you've lost the libido and are glad you were good.
But since you're 21 and are asking this on a car forum, I'd say you're doomed haha