Cheating Would you do it?
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From: Fajardo
Originally Posted by Kyushin,Nov 23 2009, 05:44 PM
Id sadistic to a degree, id enjoy that too much.
I gotta go fap now, fantasy about a female cop getting rough with me, pushing me around, cuffing me, gettin all in my face, throwning me on the ground, mounting me ohhhh yaaaaaa.
I gotta go fap now, fantasy about a female cop getting rough with me, pushing me around, cuffing me, gettin all in my face, throwning me on the ground, mounting me ohhhh yaaaaaa.
now I was seriously just kidding! 
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From: Pembroke
Alright guys, here comes the really heavy post...if you're not ready for it, do not read.
Last saturday night, I found out that my wife of 9 years, mother of my two young children, has been sleeping with her boss for the past 3 months.
I am absolutely devastated.
She has been lying to me about where she has been, who she's been hanging out with...everything. The man has been in my house.
That said, I was not mad at all...to my surprise. At first, I was sick to my stomach, and then really, really sad. I cried a lot...I mean, a lot.
Fast forward to what...96hrs...we are working thru it. I have already sat down with the the local padre for a talk, and I'm going to see a counsellor in the next few days.
She has a lot of emotions to deal with herself. She has feelings for this person...deep feelings. But I have to let her discover what she wants on her own. She's told me that she wants the family to stay together, but in her heart she's torn. So that said, I am taking this opportunity to discover myself. I need to rebuild myself. I need to be there for her, whatever that means....and whether down the road I am still her husband, or I am just a co-parent to our kids, I am going to do what it takes to make myself happy, and make her happy. If she is not happy, my kids will suffer.
So would I cheat? After what I have felt in the past 3 days - I swear on my kid's lives that I would never cheat on my partner. Never.
Sorry for the rant....lots of emotion in my head right now.
Good luck everyone
Simon
Last saturday night, I found out that my wife of 9 years, mother of my two young children, has been sleeping with her boss for the past 3 months.
I am absolutely devastated.
She has been lying to me about where she has been, who she's been hanging out with...everything. The man has been in my house.
That said, I was not mad at all...to my surprise. At first, I was sick to my stomach, and then really, really sad. I cried a lot...I mean, a lot.
Fast forward to what...96hrs...we are working thru it. I have already sat down with the the local padre for a talk, and I'm going to see a counsellor in the next few days.
She has a lot of emotions to deal with herself. She has feelings for this person...deep feelings. But I have to let her discover what she wants on her own. She's told me that she wants the family to stay together, but in her heart she's torn. So that said, I am taking this opportunity to discover myself. I need to rebuild myself. I need to be there for her, whatever that means....and whether down the road I am still her husband, or I am just a co-parent to our kids, I am going to do what it takes to make myself happy, and make her happy. If she is not happy, my kids will suffer.
So would I cheat? After what I have felt in the past 3 days - I swear on my kid's lives that I would never cheat on my partner. Never.
Sorry for the rant....lots of emotion in my head right now.
Good luck everyone
Simon
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Damn, Simon... That is EXACTLY why people shouldn't cheat. It is one of the most selfish things a person can do. I'd place cheating 2nd behind suicide.
Hang in there and love your kids. They'll appreciate you for it one day.
Hang in there and love your kids. They'll appreciate you for it one day.
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Originally Posted by 03_AP1,Nov 24 2009, 10:13 AM
Alright guys, here comes the really heavy post...if you're not ready for it, do not read.
Last saturday night, I found out that my wife of 9 years, mother of my two young children, has been sleeping with her boss for the past 3 months.
I am absolutely devastated.
She has been lying to me about where she has been, who she's been hanging out with...everything. The man has been in my house.
That said, I was not mad at all...to my surprise. At first, I was sick to my stomach, and then really, really sad. I cried a lot...I mean, a lot.
Fast forward to what...96hrs...we are working thru it. I have already sat down with the the local padre for a talk, and I'm going to see a counsellor in the next few days.
She has a lot of emotions to deal with herself. She has feelings for this person...deep feelings. But I have to let her discover what she wants on her own. She's told me that she wants the family to stay together, but in her heart she's torn. So that said, I am taking this opportunity to discover myself. I need to rebuild myself. I need to be there for her, whatever that means....and whether down the road I am still her husband, or I am just a co-parent to our kids, I am going to do what it takes to make myself happy, and make her happy. If she is not happy, my kids will suffer.
So would I cheat? After what I have felt in the past 3 days - I swear on my kid's lives that I would never cheat on my partner. Never.
Sorry for the rant....lots of emotion in my head right now.
Good luck everyone
Simon
Last saturday night, I found out that my wife of 9 years, mother of my two young children, has been sleeping with her boss for the past 3 months.
I am absolutely devastated.
She has been lying to me about where she has been, who she's been hanging out with...everything. The man has been in my house.
That said, I was not mad at all...to my surprise. At first, I was sick to my stomach, and then really, really sad. I cried a lot...I mean, a lot.
Fast forward to what...96hrs...we are working thru it. I have already sat down with the the local padre for a talk, and I'm going to see a counsellor in the next few days.
She has a lot of emotions to deal with herself. She has feelings for this person...deep feelings. But I have to let her discover what she wants on her own. She's told me that she wants the family to stay together, but in her heart she's torn. So that said, I am taking this opportunity to discover myself. I need to rebuild myself. I need to be there for her, whatever that means....and whether down the road I am still her husband, or I am just a co-parent to our kids, I am going to do what it takes to make myself happy, and make her happy. If she is not happy, my kids will suffer.
So would I cheat? After what I have felt in the past 3 days - I swear on my kid's lives that I would never cheat on my partner. Never.
Sorry for the rant....lots of emotion in my head right now.
Good luck everyone
Simon
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From: SJC
Originally Posted by 03_AP1,Nov 24 2009, 07:13 AM
She has a lot of emotions to deal with herself. She has feelings for this person...deep feelings. But I have to let her discover what she wants on her own. She's told me that she wants the family to stay together, but in her heart she's torn. So that said, I am taking this opportunity to discover myself. I need to rebuild myself. I need to be there for her, whatever that means....and whether down the road I am still her husband, or I am just a co-parent to our kids, I am going to do what it takes to make myself happy, and make her happy. If she is not happy, my kids will suffer.
So would I cheat? After what I have felt in the past 3 days - I swear on my kid's lives that I would never cheat on my partner. Never.
Sorry for the rant....lots of emotion in my head right now.
Good luck everyone
Simon
So would I cheat? After what I have felt in the past 3 days - I swear on my kid's lives that I would never cheat on my partner. Never.
Sorry for the rant....lots of emotion in my head right now.
Good luck everyone
Simon
Respect and pride are temporary. . . then her lawyer shows up, and she suddenly is entitled to half your shit. All this while the boss man is pumpin' her. . . if she wants him that badly, she can have someone else pay the bills.
I don't know what the laws are in your province (or Canuckistan in general), but 9 years here means you stand a chance of getting out (relatively) cheap.
Oh, and don't forget to ask for itemized receipts for child support expenditures.
If she's that emotionally conflicted, then marriage ain't for her.
Granted, this is my opinion. . . and I'm like Kyushin, but with fangs. I've seen this crap (and too many millions of dollars exchanged) too many times.
