i generally think im a kind, nice guy. even a wussy guy at one point. but the more i understand about women, the more i close in on the conclusion that they love the pursuit and the challenge of getting you. they will go to great lengths just like anyone would. but it's like once you have your ferrari, meh. it's nice that you give her time to work it out, but slowly, it sounds like you are turning into a weak guy (no insult intended). since you say she is a nice sweet person, then i would prob do the same as you. but the point is that once you've stopped being the cool guy out of reach to the nice guy, the game is gone for her. if you wanna do something try distancing yourself. don't be mean, but just say you've got stuff to do and that you maybe will see her later. i know it sucks, esp since i enjoy being a nice guy who is nice to people i care about. B A Challenge. let us know how it works out.

c-unit, i know there's been a bunch of cyber leg humping goin on, but i honestly enjoy hearing your input. please continue.

 

The thing is that she had a crazy sex drive when we started out... now she just got into this like mood... really sucks. What got me concerned is when she told me that she usually has no problem going like 2 weeks without having sex. That was like WTF????

 

You know what... I was already thinking that. I just might have to do that and see what happens. In this waiting period... I'm just going to be more distant from her.

It's funny cause when we first started hooking up, I was always making it clear that we weren't dating and not really sure if it would happen and she was just like ok. Now that we're "official", I guess she's done with her chasing and done trying to keep me interested. Not a smart move.

 

"look at our t-shirts"
-Chris

 

okay, well i guess that makes sense... i'm holding a natural ice, a coors light or a pabst in a majority of my pictures on myspace. hahaha... i'm so ghetto. meh, beer is beer.

and scot is just looking out for me... he doesn't want anyone to taint his 2nd wife.

and to the OP: i think pretty much everyone on this site has essentially said the same thing. so make an informed decision and tell the bitch to PUT OUT OR GET OUT! hahaha... i kid, i kid. but seriously...

 

huhu..... you said "taint"....huhu.....

 

maybe not a stalker but definately a loser

 

www.askmen.com check out the doc love articles. They make sense and he's right on.

 

I don't know. I may be the voice of dissention here. I think it depends upon how much you like the girl and whether you are looking for a long-term relationship (though I'm not sure you need to be at 23 and 21). If you really like the girl and are looking for a long-term relationship, I'd be inclined to believe her explanation. I am strongly of the opinion that we all have our crosses to bear. None of us are perfect, and everyone has their issues. Perhaps she does have some issues at the moment and perhaps you will need to give her some time to work them out with you if you really like her and are looking for a long-term relationship. No girl that you date will ever be perfect. No friend of yours will ever be perfect. No child of yours will ever be perfect...you get my point? Of course, it also sounds like she may never have as strong a sex drive as you (or most men, probably). If this is absolutely unacceptable to you, dump her. And, if you do not really like her and/or are not looking for a long-term relationship, dump her. Personally, if I were 21 or 23 again, the last thing on my mind would be a long-term relationship (I tell myself this even though I had a couple when I was that age and younger). You only get to be that young once...

 

whatever you say bud; you guys wear those when you go out?
-Chris