Ended a 5.5 year relationship. We were engaged.
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Originally Posted by vtec9,Mar 6 2009, 03:09 PM
he dumped her because she was getting fat and lazy. what rejection?
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To the OP:
You have "oneitis." You need to start focusing more attention to hobbies, work, school, etc for a while to get your mind off the Ex.
Then, my recommendation is to go out and date and bang as much as possible.
Society has put the women on a pedestal and guys are supposed to be this knight in shining armor....I SAY BULLSHIT. You are the prize. Me and my friends call it being ALPHA. Be the ALPHA MALE. We are men, by natures law we are all supposed to have a hint of asshole in us, be territorial, face conflict head on, etc, etc.
Accept it. Embrace it.
You have "oneitis." You need to start focusing more attention to hobbies, work, school, etc for a while to get your mind off the Ex.
Then, my recommendation is to go out and date and bang as much as possible.
Society has put the women on a pedestal and guys are supposed to be this knight in shining armor....I SAY BULLSHIT. You are the prize. Me and my friends call it being ALPHA. Be the ALPHA MALE. We are men, by natures law we are all supposed to have a hint of asshole in us, be territorial, face conflict head on, etc, etc.
Accept it. Embrace it.
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Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Mar 2 2009, 05:26 PM
My questions:
Is she at the bar just to get some attention to make herself feel better?
Why would she have stormed out like that?
WHY oh why can I NOT get her out of my head?? I keep having these urges to call her and try to work things out.
How could she just hang on some other dude after only 2 weeks of being broken up? I mean.. we rented a house together, we have our 2 dogs, pictures, memories, possesions.. We have a little family here. How could she just forget about all that?
Is she at the bar just to get some attention to make herself feel better?
Why would she have stormed out like that?
WHY oh why can I NOT get her out of my head?? I keep having these urges to call her and try to work things out.
How could she just hang on some other dude after only 2 weeks of being broken up? I mean.. we rented a house together, we have our 2 dogs, pictures, memories, possesions.. We have a little family here. How could she just forget about all that?
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Originally Posted by Not Sure,Mar 6 2009, 03:25 PM
Quit whining and get over it. WTF do you expect her to do after you broke up with her? Maybe she didn't like being called fat and lazy by her fiance? I mean you did tell her why you wanted to break up didn't you?
I never called her fat, lazy or any other belittling names for that matter.
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Originally Posted by Rex Leo,Mar 6 2009, 03:25 PM
To the OP:
You have "oneitis." You need to start focusing more attention to hobbies, work, school, etc for a while to get your mind off the Ex.
Then, my recommendation is to go out and date and bang as much as possible.
Society has put the women on a pedestal and guys are supposed to be this knight in shining armor....I SAY BULLSHIT. You are the prize. Me and my friends call it being ALPHA. Be the ALPHA MALE. We are men, by natures law we are all supposed to have a hint of asshole in us, be territorial, face conflict head on, etc, etc.
Accept it. Embrace it.
You have "oneitis." You need to start focusing more attention to hobbies, work, school, etc for a while to get your mind off the Ex.
Then, my recommendation is to go out and date and bang as much as possible.
Society has put the women on a pedestal and guys are supposed to be this knight in shining armor....I SAY BULLSHIT. You are the prize. Me and my friends call it being ALPHA. Be the ALPHA MALE. We are men, by natures law we are all supposed to have a hint of asshole in us, be territorial, face conflict head on, etc, etc.
Accept it. Embrace it.
