forget what i said

 

What if he refuses to have butt seks with Dizings?

 

She called me at work today.

She wants to come over this weekend or this week, she misses the dogs.

She sounded extremely bubbly happy to be talking to me, asked how I was and kept the conversation going. She really wanted to keep me on the phone.

I told her she could come over. Im not sure if I regret doing that or not...

I kept the dogs, I love them and I do not mind.

I am not selling my car, I just bought it last week.

I am the only one on the lease. I can handle the rent/etc by myself without issue. Im not worried about that. I enjoy having my own place by myself right now.

Im not sure what to expect out of this visit from her this weekend???

 

expect her to try and have sex with you in order to get you back.

 

women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex



btw, am i the only one who loves the koala punching sig?

 

dude koala punching ftw. HEY DUMMY!!!!

 

this is pretty mean, but why do i find it so incredibly funny. hahaha

to the OP, i suggest you start workin' out, lookin' good, then go find another women. There's plenty of fish in the sea, why are you doin' this to yourself? There's NO ONE that's worth this trouble, especially you've stated that she's a lazy bum, and you guys not even marry yet. Just wait till you get marry, it will get WORST.

MOVE ON, DON"T CALL HER, where's your pride?

 

some realllly good advice in here

i dont have much to say, i just posted because i will get emails keeping me updated..



but now that i think about it. there is a subscribe to this post button down there vv

 

I see where you all are coming from... HOWEVER:

Ted H is in my head and everything he says seems to fall right in line with what exactly happened in our relationship.

It is hard for me to remember what she was like before things got bad... That is 3 years ago.

I will always love her, I do love her. I do not want anything bad to happen to her. I just dont know if I want to risk wasting more of our time trying to work things out.

What if she is clinically depressed? What if she gets on medication we could have a happy, healthy, flourishing relationship?

These are my concerns when thinking about cutting ties.

 

She is an attention of the worst kind.

So, here's what's going on (trust me, I've sailed the FAILBOAT so many times, the least I can do is have the rest of y'all not F up like I have):

As far as what to expect, don't expect anything that is worth your time. You're the boss, grow a pair and call some shots. She's at your house.

She's coming over on the weekend to make sure you're not out banging anybody else. Your counter-play should be to get her kicked out of the place before 5pm. You don't have to go out, but you DO have to make sure she thinks you're banging other chicks. Make plans for the evening. Even if it's hanging out in your sweats playing Madden, it's still plans. . .

Make sure all of her shit is packed into boxes.

The bubbly attitude is a complete fucking facade. Don't buy into it. Ice her. Don't be a complete dick, but don't be "nice." Let her see the dogs for two hours. . . while you go play video games, watch the game, whatever. . . she's there to give the dogs attention, and to get attention from you. She can spend time with the dogs. . .not you. Do it with a smile. Use short sentences. Don't forget to offer her water. Just water. . .

If she starts begging for attention, she'll start straddling your junk. Do your thing, and kick her out before dinner.

Your call, but we all see the car purchase for what it is; the only person you're fooling is yourself.

Is it really yours? Is it the place you're reasonably happy with? Get all of her shit out now (if it isn't out already).

Oh, and. . . if you don't mind my asking, how long have you been paying the rent? How much of it was she paying?