Ended a 6 year relationship last week.
I don't believe in waiting passively for fate. Create your own fate and maximize your odds. Try some co-Ed sports or activity clubs or some volunteer activities. You might find the kind of person you're looking for.
And cut out the "sour grapes" attitude. I'm hearing BS when you say stuff about "concentrating on career and saving for a house." A good partner will help you with that stuff. Why would you want to get tied down to a house when you don't know where you'll be in three years?
And cut out the "sour grapes" attitude. I'm hearing BS when you say stuff about "concentrating on career and saving for a house." A good partner will help you with that stuff. Why would you want to get tied down to a house when you don't know where you'll be in three years?
Originally Posted by CKit,Jul 7 2009, 11:30 PM
I don't believe in waiting passively for fate. Create your own fate and maximize your odds. Try some co-Ed sports or activity clubs or some volunteer activities. You might find the kind of person you're looking for.
And cut out the "sour grapes" attitude. I'm hearing BS when you say stuff about "concentrating on career and saving for a house." A good partner will help you with that stuff. Why would you want to get tied down to a house when you don't know where you'll be in three years?
And cut out the "sour grapes" attitude. I'm hearing BS when you say stuff about "concentrating on career and saving for a house." A good partner will help you with that stuff. Why would you want to get tied down to a house when you don't know where you'll be in three years?
I am not looking to buy a house before I am out of school but I would like to save a substantial amount towards a house.
I am and need to focus on school and my career. That is extremely important to me.
Originally Posted by CKit,Jul 7 2009, 08:30 PM
I don't believe in waiting passively for fate. Create your own fate and maximize your odds.

However, where I disagree slightly is the co-ed stuff. Just be excellent. If you like ____. then go do ___, and don't do it with any other motivations. . . . but YMMV.
Try to meet nice girls at school if you can. Flirt with girls in your classes, whatever. Honestly, if I had known about internet dating at 21, I would have been all over it. It's like shooting fish in a barrel but occasionally you meet someone that is truly interested in finding a relationship. I'd roll the dice to bang 9 sluts if that meant the 10th was relationship material. YMMV.
Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jul 8 2009, 12:37 AM
Why would you call BS on that?
I am not looking to buy a house before I am out of school but I would like to save a substantial amount towards a house.
I am and need to focus on school and my career. That is extremely important to me.
I am not looking to buy a house before I am out of school but I would like to save a substantial amount towards a house.
I am and need to focus on school and my career. That is extremely important to me.








