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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Jul 8 2009, 11:24 AM
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College campus has got to be one of the best places to meet women. Look around.
And all smokers say they will quit tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes. If you really want to quit, quit NOW. Throw out that pack in your pocket, don't buy any more and don't touch another one. Maybe when you meet the right lady, you won't smell like shit and she'll give you a second look. Right now, I guarantee, you stink!!!
And all smokers say they will quit tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes. If you really want to quit, quit NOW. Throw out that pack in your pocket, don't buy any more and don't touch another one. Maybe when you meet the right lady, you won't smell like shit and she'll give you a second look. Right now, I guarantee, you stink!!!
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Originally Posted by Dizings2k,Jul 8 2009, 07:29 AM
LOL I have a full time job.
How else do you think I afford my stuff at 21? Parents help with nothing.
There are not too many women here at work. I probably would not dip pen in company ink either.
Im not taking summer classes so right this second I am not in school, but I know what you mean.
How else do you think I afford my stuff at 21? Parents help with nothing.
There are not too many women here at work. I probably would not dip pen in company ink either.
Im not taking summer classes so right this second I am not in school, but I know what you mean.
some people work only like 1 or 2 days a week, along with a full time job...
im even considering getting a part-time job, even tho im full-time employeed..
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Dude, you're 21, just hang out with your friends and enjoy life. Women will come and go in this period w/o much effort. Some will be meaningful, some won't, all you can do is learn things from the experiences each one gives you. Desperation is NOT something women will be attracted to and they will smell it a mile away. Make as many female friends as you can. Maximizes your odds big time b/c they will have a few hot friends each. 
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Jul 7 2009, 11:11 PM
not before you're ~25 you don't. You've got school and a career to think of. Chicks are at least third on that list.
Case in point:
At 21, and two weeks out of a 6-year-bender-of-a-"relationship," that's the strong scent of desperation. . . phew.
Be cool. Focus on school, career, and savings. Everything else will start working out on it's own. Including the women-folk.
Case in point:
At 21, and two weeks out of a 6-year-bender-of-a-"relationship," that's the strong scent of desperation. . . phew.Be cool. Focus on school, career, and savings. Everything else will start working out on it's own. Including the women-folk.
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Whoa, why all the hate on "bar-sluts". They're people too. Most of the time, they need short term relationships in order to either boost their self-esteem or to get some kind of approval/validation. There is nothing wrong with that. I don't judge, it's human nature.
You'd be surprise anyways, once they realize that they can't go on forever doing it and that there are new crops of 18year olds every year to compete with, they'll settle down. Lots of people have crazy past. I bet most people's parents have stories to tell.
But seriously, if you go to bars, talk to all the bachelorette parties. Those are your best bets for nice girls that tag along with bad girls.
Hmm, I don't remember where I heard this from but fwiw:
Chase women, and you usually lose money.
Chase money, and you never lose women.
Personally, I don't like losing.
You'd be surprise anyways, once they realize that they can't go on forever doing it and that there are new crops of 18year olds every year to compete with, they'll settle down. Lots of people have crazy past. I bet most people's parents have stories to tell.
But seriously, if you go to bars, talk to all the bachelorette parties. Those are your best bets for nice girls that tag along with bad girls.
Hmm, I don't remember where I heard this from but fwiw:
Chase women, and you usually lose money.
Chase money, and you never lose women.
Personally, I don't like losing.