so we have been together for a year and a half, engaged for about 6 months, anyhow we were talking, and arguing a little bit tonight, and I asked her straight up, do you miss him...and she said yes..., but she said she doesnt want to be with him...its under my skin...am i just being a jealous dick, or do i have a right to be bother by this, thoughts???

 

if it was me... i would be jealous. because i dont think she should miss him. if you were seriously better... what is there to miss?

 

Just make sure she loves you more than she misses him....

 

ya, thats how im feelin about the situation..she jsut came up here and wanted me to come back downstairs with her, i think she new she said the wrong thing to me...still wtf.....

 

1 1/2 years isnt long enough obviously. Hopefully your waiting to have a wedding and its quite a ways off.

 

wedding isint till next october.....thanks guys, she left to get a movie, i told her i really didnt wanna go....

 

it important that you show her that you're not cool with it. women will think you're weak if you try to be nice and understanding about it. best case scenario, walk away for a bit and wait for her to come after you. gives you back the power. sorry for the situation.

 

a guy or gal that misses his/her ex has a great chance of cheating with his/her ex if and when the situation presents itself. i know i've done it, and i know it's been done to me.

 

yeah.. its kinda like attributing a value to something, moving to something new, attributing new value to the new thing, but still valuing the old. what did she miss? the sex?

 

damn, that would piss me off. Remembering him, and missing him are two different things. I hope he doesn't live close by. Sorry, but that's how I feel,