thanks, ya you all have valid opinions and are mostly right about "proper" reactions one might give. And maybe she does think about him from time to time, i mean ive thought about past relationships of mine from time to time, they were pretty close, best friends, she hasnt talked to him in about a year now and has no intentions to...i could elaborate and go on and on, but overall i believe what her intentions are with me, and will stick with it, ive done far worse in the past and shes stuck with me, im no angel myself, but ive grown and learned from my mistakes....

thanks guys for the advice. i believe it will work out for us.

 

I would take her somewhere kickass ( the beach), have a great time, get drunk, play around... If she still feels that way tell her to hit the road!