conferred with my associate on such matters... here is his advice:

"the only thing i would add is dont beat around the bush, state your intentions and see where they fall. but prepared to hear things you dont want to hear if you have not laid the correct groundwork for your intentions"

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by nexus
[B]take it from me.... i may not be a post whore, but my friends insist that i'm a slut (ignore them, i do!).......

 

somehow i dont see a 14 yr old reading sales and marketing books. much less Archie books.

i mean. at 14.. just have fun.. u shouldn't be stressing out over girls too much.. hell.. when i was 14 i was thinking of what NES game i was gonna buy next

 

Damn, i've seen this post for days and didnt bother looking at it... but once i did, i read all of it LOL. Is like following a freaking soap opera or something.

This is great, really great, other peoples relationship problems are so entertaining (dont mean to be mean).

The day is winding down and i think the kids will be coming home from the beach soon. Man... cant wait to see if our boy Collin has A) Succeed B) Failed in his attemp or C) Chickened out again. Of course i hope is A) but a few more twist and turns might make the story... i mean... life more interesting. Anyway, i would have a few words of advice to offer but i guess is too late now. For what is worth... i can feel for ya brotha, i too am 15 years old in high school and have my own set of issuses i have to set straight with my certain someone. As for now, all i can do is wait....

Well best of luck to ya, you got my moral support man!

-Nick

 

yeah, i always preferred other peoples problems to my own too!

 

No luck today.



When we went to the beach, we charged straight for the water. The waves were very big, and unfortunately, I jammed my F#*%ing wrist! I was slammed to the floor by a huge wave and I jammed my wrist down to break my fall (the water was crazy- the wave was huge but the undertow made the water right in front of the wave only like 4 inches deep). So, I didn't have much time to talk to her or even just hang out with her.

:sigh:

Luckily though, I'm going to her house tomorrow. I will try my best to get it out and talk to her. Hopefully, it will go good :prays:

[QUOTE]Originally posted by nexus
[B]take it from me.... i may not be a post whore, but my friends insist that i'm a slut (ignore them, i do!).......

 

dude. the suspense is killing me.

 

 

i duno if i agree with what nexus said.

flattering people on purpose is sucking up/kissing their ass...

girls wont admit it but being a challenge is why they will like you/like you more.

by no means am I saying you SHOULDNT compliment here but I wouldnt compliment her/try to justify what you are aobut to do (tell her you like her/ask her out/kiss her/whatever)
That act is complimenting enough

the marketing thing is good suggestion as you are trying to sell yourself....but whenever i make a sale (i resell paintball products) it is usually where I put it straightforward, This is the product this is what i want take it or leave it....not where i chase after the customer....let them come to you on your own terms not where you have to convince them to like you/your product.

that said......comeon hoonda you can do it


if she turns you down just be like allright. if she asks why just be like "i wanna show you what fun your missing" or something along those lines. if you beg/try to convince her to like you it will only backfire.


oh yea another thing I thought of was before you tell her you like her/whatever your plan is make sure the conversation is 100% positive dont talk about ANYTHING negative. keep it light and positive

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by nexus
[B]take it from me.... i may not be a post whore, but my friends insist that i'm a slut (ignore them, i do!).......