G/f of 4 yrs,cheated..help needed
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In my experience the best thing to do is cut all ties and communication, however you work with this girl. A career and income is important, but maybe you can find something better and get the hell away from her.
The worst thing to do is to keep seeing her, even occasionally. If you keep taking her back, keep sleeping with her, whatever, she will continue to
other guys and come back to you when it doesn't work out.
A wise man once told me that one thing that separates humans from animals is that animals sense fear and run. Humans don't. I have plenty of hindsight and this is advice is dead on. If I had listened to him a few years ago it would have saved me a restraining order, $4k in legal fees, and my gun wouldn't be permanently locked up in safe keeping. While most women are good, stable, individuals, sometimes you get a crazy one. Don't underestimate her. If she wants to she can wreak havoc on your career and your personal life, and there's nothing you can do to stop her.
And yes, if things get nasty, and you want to forward pics of her, then put me on the list.
Good luck, and stay strong!
The worst thing to do is to keep seeing her, even occasionally. If you keep taking her back, keep sleeping with her, whatever, she will continue to
other guys and come back to you when it doesn't work out.A wise man once told me that one thing that separates humans from animals is that animals sense fear and run. Humans don't. I have plenty of hindsight and this is advice is dead on. If I had listened to him a few years ago it would have saved me a restraining order, $4k in legal fees, and my gun wouldn't be permanently locked up in safe keeping. While most women are good, stable, individuals, sometimes you get a crazy one. Don't underestimate her. If she wants to she can wreak havoc on your career and your personal life, and there's nothing you can do to stop her.
And yes, if things get nasty, and you want to forward pics of her, then put me on the list.
Good luck, and stay strong!
we won't tell 
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Bitch called me today..i didnt answer so she left a voicemail...saying how she wants to go to the auto show with me? I cant understand the girl....she has a b/f..cheated on me but somehow will not leave me alone and still wants me to be around. IM going out to a club saturday and sunday me and my best friend ,his g/f and some nice looking chick are going bowling 
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*But*
As you say...its up to the parties in the relationship to keep comitment, but the guy was also a friend of his so they should also have that same comitment (in a guy guy way ), to not sleep with eachothers girlfriends!
As you say...its up to the parties in the relationship to keep comitment, but the guy was also a friend of his so they should also have that same comitment (in a guy guy way
), to not sleep with eachothers girlfriends!