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G/f of 4 yrs,cheated..help needed

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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 06:44 PM
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Thanks guys, your advice helped me 100% and now i just look at her as being a total bitch. There is just 1 thing that sucks...we work at the same place and i am a supervisor and make good $$$...so i dont want to quit.
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 06:49 PM
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Stop calling her your girlfriend! Comeon man we're tryin to help ya thru this.
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 07:09 PM
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My bad..Sorry
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 07:12 PM
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I didn't read all the posts, but here's my take.

1.Once a cheater always a cheater.
2. You are 21, please move on.
3. The hardest, but best thing is to move on. Time will be the thing that heals.
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 07:22 PM
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Time + + + + + + maybe


and help.
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 07:55 PM
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Vtecholic01 ...The girl i love more than anything cheated on me with a guy i worked with and later told me its over.
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by Vtecholic01
Thanks guys, your advice helped me 100% and now i just look at her as being a total bitch. There is just 1 thing that sucks...we work at the same place and i am a supervisor and make good $$$...so i dont want to quit.

I would have kicked that other guys a$$ as well if he knew what she was doing....he is as much at fault as her at that point.
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by Vtecholic01
Thanks guys, your advice helped me 100% and now i just look at her as being a total bitch. There is just 1 thing that sucks...we work at the same place and i am a supervisor and make good $$$...so i dont want to quit.
this is very hard, you can maybe get away with working there too, but you cant talk to her. or if you do not about anything but work, and if she tries to talk to you bout shit besides work, just tell her to shut up. and if she gets annoying, hell fire her!
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 09:50 PM
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I'll try to find a reason to fire her ass
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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 10:24 PM
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hah, well...don't burn all bridges. You don't need to cross it, but i'd be wary of destroying it. Just ignore her, treat her as you would an employee not a friend, and go on with your life. you ought not to have to leave because she screwed up. you can't fire her for no reason, but get someone else to fire her if you end up going that route.

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