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G/f of 4 yrs,cheated..help needed

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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 10:48 PM
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i been thru exactly the same shit. dat hurts as hell for reals. move on and get some bitches out there.
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 12:32 PM
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LOL..i cant believe this happened. She called me about an hour ago and said she misses me and at least wants to continue having sex with me..should i f*** her just for my pleasure..or is that a bad idea?
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 12:36 PM
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Vtecholic01
LOL..i cant believe this happened.
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 12:43 PM
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uh..yeah, if you're trying to quit cigarettes you can't do it if you do one every other day for the pleasure it gives you; it's still killing you.

I think that call is the essence of what you mean to her now. She is flighty and wants all the benefits without any of the committment. Don't give in; go on with your life and move on from your past with her.

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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 12:52 PM
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did you want me to mail you my 9mm? anyway, dump her, the reason why you are so infatuated is simply the ammount of time you put in. you do not know what it is like to be single and is scares you. give it 6 mos on your own and you will see you are too young to be tied down any way. If not you have plenty of time to get back to gether with her, but this will haunt your relation ship FOREVER, you will NEVER forget this, no matter how hard you try or how much you love her!!!
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 01:49 PM
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I am a dumbass, because she tells me sooo many times...get the f*** out of my life, i dont want you , but later on she apologizes and i give in and tell her its ok. All she is doing is messing with my head and gives me stress and headache. Do you think i should let the dud know she's cheating on him?? Even though he seen one time that i was over her house and told her ..he forgives her. If i will ditch the bitch completely i want her to suffer..i got nudies ...should i send them to him??? lol..I hate the way she messed up my whole life right now
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 02:04 PM
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dont send the nuddie! that can go real bad, but call him up and tell him whats going on.
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 02:06 PM
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send me the nudies, then dump her.
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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 02:28 PM
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werd.

She's messing with you, don't let her. it gives her a power that she does not deserve, because she can control and manipulate you with your feelings. you must be independent; Pierceman is right, the single life is something you're afraid of because you've never done it before. It gets easier and you might even find that you prefer it. TIME! You need time, and you're only 21; it's a thing you've got plenty of.

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Old Feb 11, 2004 | 07:33 PM
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Quick is right, the money you save from the relationship, you can spend on condoms.
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