Nice......Give it to her as a late b-day present. If shes not all over you after that then she doesnt like you enough.

 

Have you thought about possibly holding off on the spa treatment until you have an idea of if she's interested or not? --- otherwise you may be coming off as desperate/too forward.

For her birthday is one thing, but for no random reason -- makes me think back to a situation where I was really into a guy, but he kept buying me unreturnable gifts and such... it eventually made me feel like he was trying to buy me and it turned me right off.

 

you sound like you like this chick way too much and she will know, trust me. If you REALLY like her, give her the spa thing. After that, put the ball in her court....dont talk to her for a week and she what she does. If she calls dont answer, just send her a text message or an email back later that night or the next day instead of talking to her. Just put some more hours in at work and tell her that you've been busy. It will drive her crazy... .

 

Mindgames

 

^^^ not mindgames....just trying to help a brotha out from coming on too strong.

 

that spa thing is way overboard.

never be overly nice to a girl.

u'll never get them that way.

just go out. have fun. be normal.. stop buying her crap all the time or paying for her stuff. that'll never get u any punnnnnnnnn

 

<-- hates playing games


altough I dont wanna sound despirate, I wish people as a whole would be more foreward and front about their feelings towards one another.

 

I would avoid buying any kind of perfume. Perfume is kind of a personal decision and unless you know what she likes or you are her boyfriend, you can't buy her that.

Do you know what kind of music she likes? Maybe there's a good concert coming to town and you could take her there. The benefit is that you get to take her out! This can be applied to theatre (stage not movie), and comedy shows.

ALSO NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO....TAKE HER OUT TO DINNER AND DRINKS. The birthday gives you a great excuse and you get kind of a date!

The best gifts come from knowing her a little and paying attention to her interests and desires. If you don't know her that well....try a small gift with some funny meaning or something. If she doesn't know you too well...she'll understand. You don't have to spend over $50 on her....trust me.

Good luck!

 

So why don't you take your own advice and tell her how you feel?

 

no no no no dont tell her how you feel.

if she doesnt feel the same way yet then she'll think ur coming on too strong. i'll backfire. girls dont like to be pressured into things.

just take her out and do fun things. spend time together. if she likes u then you'll know. stop buying all the crap.

and rule number 2, dont take advice from another girl.. girls never know what they really want, they only THINK they do.