HELP need female gift idea!
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Originally Posted by KaiWang,Oct 28 2004, 10:47 AM
no no no no dont tell her how you feel.
if she doesnt feel the same way yet then she'll think ur coming on too strong. i'll backfire. girls dont like to be pressured into things.
just take her out and do fun things. spend time together. if she likes u then you'll know. stop buying all the crap.
and rule number 2, dont take advice from another girl.. girls never know what they really want, they only THINK they do.
if she doesnt feel the same way yet then she'll think ur coming on too strong. i'll backfire. girls dont like to be pressured into things.
just take her out and do fun things. spend time together. if she likes u then you'll know. stop buying all the crap.
and rule number 2, dont take advice from another girl.. girls never know what they really want, they only THINK they do.
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Okay.... follow these steps carefully.....
1. look at yourself in the mirror
2. Do you have a picture of her..... if you do great if not I'm sure you have a mental picture of her.....
3. now imagine the two of u together..... are you compatible..... come on now be honest....categorize your compatibility 1) ideal match 2) maybe 3) wow she is hot and I look like a train wreck. Remember, try to include personality and all that other stuff...
4. if your answer for 4 is 1 then, dont spend anymore money and ask her out.
5. if your answer is 2) spend more time with her and see if it approaches 3.1 or 3.3
6. if your answer is 3) then tell her cause you never know.... but the bad thing about this is after you tell, she might think ur weird and not talk to u anymore.... but it beats always asking yourself what if
.....
1. look at yourself in the mirror
2. Do you have a picture of her..... if you do great if not I'm sure you have a mental picture of her.....
3. now imagine the two of u together..... are you compatible..... come on now be honest....categorize your compatibility 1) ideal match 2) maybe 3) wow she is hot and I look like a train wreck. Remember, try to include personality and all that other stuff...
4. if your answer for 4 is 1 then, dont spend anymore money and ask her out.
5. if your answer is 2) spend more time with her and see if it approaches 3.1 or 3.3
6. if your answer is 3) then tell her cause you never know.... but the bad thing about this is after you tell, she might think ur weird and not talk to u anymore.... but it beats always asking yourself what if
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Originally Posted by beroznikmal,Oct 28 2004, 10:12 AM
Okay.... follow these steps carefully.....
1. look at yourself in the mirror
2. Do you have a picture of her..... if you do great if not I'm sure you have a mental picture of her.....
3. now imagine the two of u together..... are you compatible..... come on now be honest....categorize your compatibility 1) ideal match 2) maybe 3) wow she is hot and I look like a train wreck. Remember, try to include personality and all that other stuff...
4. if your answer for 4 is 1 then, dont spend anymore money and ask her out.
5. if your answer is 2) spend more time with her and see if it approaches 3.1 or 3.3
6. if your answer is 3) then tell her cause you never know.... but the bad thing about this is after you tell, she might think ur weird and not talk to u anymore.... but it beats always asking yourself what if .....
1. look at yourself in the mirror
2. Do you have a picture of her..... if you do great if not I'm sure you have a mental picture of her.....
3. now imagine the two of u together..... are you compatible..... come on now be honest....categorize your compatibility 1) ideal match 2) maybe 3) wow she is hot and I look like a train wreck. Remember, try to include personality and all that other stuff...
4. if your answer for 4 is 1 then, dont spend anymore money and ask her out.
5. if your answer is 2) spend more time with her and see if it approaches 3.1 or 3.3
6. if your answer is 3) then tell her cause you never know.... but the bad thing about this is after you tell, she might think ur weird and not talk to u anymore.... but it beats always asking yourself what if
.....#2 no pic but good mental pics, especially after last night
#3 I think so were not like a match made in heaven, I give it a 2
#4 nah I think she is still worth some time but I am not sure
#5 yeah this sounds like what I need 2 do.
#6 exactly what I dont wanna do. cause if I say I like her then only three things can happen and 2 of them are bad. We hook up, good. She rejects me, bad. We hook up then I realize this is a mistake, bad.
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Review of last night.
It was a blast, we ate dinner with friends @ 7 (I for sure fall in the friend category thus far) then all the girls went to the club (girls night, guys dont get in until 11) So I went to a friends and drank until 11. Then (now fairly trashed) we made it to the club and met up with her. She was thrilled to see me and was jumping up and down. Then we danced and I proceeded to buy drinks for her and everybody and coverd the remainder of her tab. We did only dance two times but she was not paying me any special attention. Well I started drinking alot to say the least and got kind of bad off. I didnt make an ass out of my self but I was trying to avoid a girl that really likes me but I also danced with other people. I didnt want her to feel like I was trying to trap her on her b-day so I didnt go out of my way to dance with her. But there was a muscle bound guy (I could maybe beat up snoop dog) that was drawn to her so I let him go for it and he failed by the end of the night so all is still good. So I am in for sure on the friend area, I just need to see how it unfolds to get to become more of friends. If you all would like I can keep coming back here and reporting on how its going.
Here is the biggest problem with us becoming 2.... I turn 20 next month. she just turned 23 last night
It was a blast, we ate dinner with friends @ 7 (I for sure fall in the friend category thus far) then all the girls went to the club (girls night, guys dont get in until 11) So I went to a friends and drank until 11. Then (now fairly trashed) we made it to the club and met up with her. She was thrilled to see me and was jumping up and down. Then we danced and I proceeded to buy drinks for her and everybody and coverd the remainder of her tab. We did only dance two times but she was not paying me any special attention. Well I started drinking alot to say the least and got kind of bad off. I didnt make an ass out of my self but I was trying to avoid a girl that really likes me but I also danced with other people. I didnt want her to feel like I was trying to trap her on her b-day so I didnt go out of my way to dance with her. But there was a muscle bound guy (I could maybe beat up snoop dog) that was drawn to her so I let him go for it and he failed by the end of the night so all is still good. So I am in for sure on the friend area, I just need to see how it unfolds to get to become more of friends. If you all would like I can keep coming back here and reporting on how its going.
Here is the biggest problem with us becoming 2.... I turn 20 next month. she just turned 23 last night
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Fine, it was her birthday....she's out with friends...etc. Let her have fun with everyone.
Now ask her out to dinner for her bday...ALONE! If you're not getting a romantic vibe on that date...uh I mean dinner...than move on! She's 23 and you're 19 going on 20. Some girls have a big complex about going out with a guy who's 20 when she's over 21.
BTW...from your story...you were sound like you were getting pretty wasted on her birthday evening. Not cool if you're trying to make an impression. Am I right ladies? Yeah...drinking makes you lose your cool. I've mastered...after many years...how to drink and get a decent buzz...without going overboard. You're still under 21, but it's a good thing to learn....how to drink for the occasion.
Good luck..
Now ask her out to dinner for her bday...ALONE! If you're not getting a romantic vibe on that date...uh I mean dinner...than move on! She's 23 and you're 19 going on 20. Some girls have a big complex about going out with a guy who's 20 when she's over 21.
BTW...from your story...you were sound like you were getting pretty wasted on her birthday evening. Not cool if you're trying to make an impression. Am I right ladies? Yeah...drinking makes you lose your cool. I've mastered...after many years...how to drink and get a decent buzz...without going overboard. You're still under 21, but it's a good thing to learn....how to drink for the occasion.
Good luck..
