Hey guys i have a serious question, help please. Long...
I just wanted to come back to the finger nail issue once again, You mention you cut them that day..typically..unless your the fruity type that files there nails as well
they are sharper after you cut them then after a few days when they become naturaly worn.
Combine this with the fact that you both are relatively new to this kinda play, she is most like nervous, and likely to clench..I think that you probably gave her a small cut.
regardless if it was a cut like this, or it was her hymen, it will heal quickly.
Most young women, if they are at all active rarely retain thier hymens anyway, with sports, jumping, bike riding, self exploration, usualy lose it early on.
There other thing I havent seen mentioned, is lubrication..if she is nervous, or apprehensive, she may not be as wet as she should be, and this can cause pain and discomfort..never stick anything inside with out a LOT of lube. Its the differance between her thinking "I wish he would stop" to "Please keep going!!!"
Just have fun, be really open with each other, and be as safe as you can..
they are sharper after you cut them then after a few days when they become naturaly worn.Combine this with the fact that you both are relatively new to this kinda play, she is most like nervous, and likely to clench..I think that you probably gave her a small cut.
regardless if it was a cut like this, or it was her hymen, it will heal quickly.
Most young women, if they are at all active rarely retain thier hymens anyway, with sports, jumping, bike riding, self exploration, usualy lose it early on.
There other thing I havent seen mentioned, is lubrication..if she is nervous, or apprehensive, she may not be as wet as she should be, and this can cause pain and discomfort..never stick anything inside with out a LOT of lube. Its the differance between her thinking "I wish he would stop" to "Please keep going!!!"
Just have fun, be really open with each other, and be as safe as you can..






But i'll leave the rest to the imagination.....