Wantone's 4 step process:

1. Grow Balls...
2. Tell her,
3. LISTEN to whatever she has to say,
4. Respect it...

Remember at this point you want her more than she may want you...

 

ya, good point.. I think I will go in this general direction as far as "gameplan" goes..

 

I also have a 4 step process to dump a girl too

 

lol, the world must be so simple through your eyes wantone.....

Just back the f'ing 350 up the hill dumbass!!!!!!! sorry, I still think that was the best thread ever.

Rice

 

Just grab her box man.

to quote an australian i once met

 

well, contrary to popular belief i don't think you should tell her. to me, like isn't worth losing a friend and getting my ass kicked. you sound like you just wanna hit. if you were in love with her then i would say go for it. however, with the information i have now i'd say leave her alone and just bask in your imagination. can you really win in this situation? seems to me you have way more to lose than to gain, but as always it's on you...

 

like cyko said, I think we need a little more info on this situation. Is she happy with him? Does she complain about him? Is this guy your friend? Is he a big jerk?

A yes no answer in a complicated situation is too simplified. I think the best course is to subtly ask her about her relationship or enlist one of your (female) friend in common to do the "spy" work for you (this is better if you can trust that friend). You may decide from the info that now may or may not be the best time. Or have the (female) friend ask how this girl feels about you before you go and risk the friendship.

If you plan to tell her, you also need to start a thread seeking our advices

 

Gotta love the Aussie's!

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by S2020
[B]like cyko said, I think we need a little more info on this situation.

 

EvoII, when a person desires something alot, his mind is "warped" and can interpret /sees things as he wants/wishes them to be..
I'm not saying you're not perceptive but be careful...