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May 25, 2007 | 11:45 AM

#31

PLYRS 3

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From: Erock's my boat!

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Originally Posted by jclamor87,May 25 2007, 03:36 PM

time heals everything(beer, money, cars, girls, dubs, family, and FRIENDS are always a great addition to help you recover)

actually, when it comes to chicks, only a new pussy does...

May 25, 2007 | 11:52 AM

#32

problem_child

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From: IM SEXY

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Originally Posted by C_Unit,May 25 2007, 10:10 AM

all you guys are trying to be hardasses, but you all know that there's that ONE girl that you would do just about anything for. and if you've never had a girl like that, then i feel sorry for you.

May 25, 2007 | 01:08 PM

#33

Sobe_Death

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From: Denver

I am in the same boat as you are, I just took it a little bit slower. What helped me with the process was sitting down and talking with my friends and a couple of beers. Thats how I was able to figure out that I really did want to get back with her.
Another thing. If you really are trying to get back with her, the best way you could kiss her ass is to send her flowers at work(or something similar).

I have never EVER had a girlfriend who didn't completely melt from random flowers. And I have dated all kinds of women. If you make her feel special around her friends, she will appreciate you that much more.

May 25, 2007 | 01:19 PM

#34

jclamor87

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From: Bowie, MD

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Originally Posted by Sobe_Death,May 25 2007, 01:08 PM

Beer and friends always gets the job done!

May 25, 2007 | 01:25 PM

#35

jclamor87

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From: Bowie, MD

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Originally Posted by C_Unit,May 25 2007, 10:53 AM

geez, i thought i was logged on to s2ki.com, apparently i logged onto hmwhi.com

He-Man Woman-Hater International.com.

guys can be pretty cold-hearted too.

im sure every guy in here has(if not already) been with a girl that they would do anything for, but we are GUYS we(mostly) will never admit that.

on the other hand if jessica alba was to come to me, i wouldnt care if i was on national TV or not(id be the most sensitive guy when ever im with her)

Boy got cought cheating
boy - let me explain
girl - go ahead
boy - IT WAS JUST SEX, IT DIDNT MEAN ANYTHING

does that really work or make things worse????

May 25, 2007 | 02:15 PM

#36

dyhppy

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From: Santa Monica-SoCal

if women didn't treat nice guys so badly, than nice guys wouldn't have to try to be hardasses to get a little respect. women reward the jerks and u know it.

May 26, 2007 | 07:51 AM

#37

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Originally Posted by gotrice02,May 25 2007, 11:12 AM

[...] You want your ex back because you are comfortable with her. [...]

Exactly. Like the OP said, you're having a hard time remembering the "bad" times because memories of the "good times" take over. It's that way because you want it to be that way. No one likes to get their heart broken. But if you don't take an honest look at all the reasons why you broke up to begin with and both commit to making changes so it will work, a third break-up will be in your future. Good luck.

May 26, 2007 | 07:53 AM

#38

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Originally Posted by dyhppy,May 25 2007, 06:15 PM

if women didn't treat nice guys so badly, than nice guys wouldn't have to try to be hardasses to get a little respect. women reward the jerks and u know it.

I've never understood this rationale from guys...We have to treat women like shit because that's what they want.

I think a lot of women, for various reasons, think they deserve to be treated like crap, so they seek out guys who do just that. How is it ever okay for anyone to treat anyone else like crap?